Player_Supreme
Banned
no comment, all the others have done it already.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
26 and never had a gf ... very depressed about it
- Thread starter bobbob
- Start date
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
MichaelangelloB
Don Juan
Aim low. It's the best way to get back on the horse.
Player_Supreme
Banned
No wonder the hateration...
Ok now I gotta say something bobbob:
YOUR 26 YEARS OLD AND WHAT????? BWAHAHAHAAHAHA
And you said what to me? ohh gawd!!!! ok I'm done with you loser.
Jump back into your abyss.....
fool!
I think that one guys said it best:
Cry me a river....
booo hooo hooo...
buh bye!!!
Ok now I gotta say something bobbob:
YOUR 26 YEARS OLD AND WHAT????? BWAHAHAHAAHAHA
And you said what to me? ohh gawd!!!! ok I'm done with you loser.
Jump back into your abyss.....
fool!
I think that one guys said it best:
Cry me a river....
booo hooo hooo...
buh bye!!!
PuertoRican_Lover
Banned
Player, I saw the title of this thread and its' originator and your name as the last post and I laughed right away because I knew you were going to give him a hard time based on his reply on eternal's thread!
Must you be so cruel? Do you have a heart?
Must you be so cruel? Do you have a heart?
I replied on the other post, PRL, it's cool, Poser Supreme isn't capable of saying anything even mildly insulting.
I was done with the other thread, but I just had to post 1 last time in respons, just to tear PS a new *******. peace
I was done with the other thread, but I just had to post 1 last time in respons, just to tear PS a new *******. peace
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Player_Supreme
Banned
I'm doing this as a favor to you PRL.
I will stand down from this loser with no women...no wonder he is frustrated.
Player_Supreme
Banned
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PuertoRican_Lover wrote on 09-23-2004 07:23 AM:
PS, Bobbob is lashing out at you in frustration - must you torment him in his dpressed state - being 26 and never having a g/f?
I know he deserves it after his comments.
When people say racial shyt I know it's hard to hold your tongue, but this dude is in a bad predicament and he took a risk by sharing his thread and seems desperate to seek help.
Others may not post their problems if they feel they'll be punished and laughed at for doing so.
Try to make amends by calling a truce and withholding personal attacks - DJ's already know you are for real and bobbob is desperately seeking help - no need to exaggerate his shame.
Just trying to help the skinny dude in a losing fight!
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Now you know I'm like a shark. When I sense blood I attack.
I don't care about this loser PRL. I am done with him though. After I found out his real problem and I finished laughing, I figured his weak man ass out.
Later bro.
Player_Supreme
Banned
Ok for PRL I am going to say this:
I realize why a guy like you would hate me. There you are 26 years old and in the condition that your in. There I am almost 20 years older than you are and getting laid right and left...
I can understand why you feel as you do. I almost feel sorry for you young man. My way is not your path. I would like to say that you do need to Read the bible and do the boot camp.
Maybe then you can luck up on some ass ( find a girlfriend) and settle down and find happiness.
I'm sure you've seen me post to other uhhh guys like you my ****y retorts and advice. I'm sure that also grates on your very existance the way I come accross.
And I'm sure my useage of as you called it Ebonics really grates on your nerves.
What I want you to do in the future so that I don't have to come down on you is to put me on ignore. That way you will never have to see another word that I have to say again.
OK
peace out kid
I realize why a guy like you would hate me. There you are 26 years old and in the condition that your in. There I am almost 20 years older than you are and getting laid right and left...
I can understand why you feel as you do. I almost feel sorry for you young man. My way is not your path. I would like to say that you do need to Read the bible and do the boot camp.
Maybe then you can luck up on some ass ( find a girlfriend) and settle down and find happiness.
I'm sure you've seen me post to other uhhh guys like you my ****y retorts and advice. I'm sure that also grates on your very existance the way I come accross.
And I'm sure my useage of as you called it Ebonics really grates on your nerves.
What I want you to do in the future so that I don't have to come down on you is to put me on ignore. That way you will never have to see another word that I have to say again.
OK
peace out kid
Hahaha ... oh my god ... I'm not even going to bother to read your post.
The fact that I got SOOOO under your skin must mean that I struck a nerve.
Things only get underneath a person's skin when there is TRUTH to them. That implies that every thing I said about you is based in fact.
You are a loser, a wannabe who tries to pass himself off as a "mack" or "pimp" or some other sorry ass "nigga" version of what it is to be good with women.
You're what, 35 years old? Shouldn't you be out with women instead of on your keyboard all day getting close to 4000 posts? That is just sad.
The fact that someone who is 26 and has never had a gf can call you sad, that means you REALLY must be pathetic.
Stop living in your little fantasy world. No one is buying your ****.
The fact that I got SOOOO under your skin must mean that I struck a nerve.
Things only get underneath a person's skin when there is TRUTH to them. That implies that every thing I said about you is based in fact.
You are a loser, a wannabe who tries to pass himself off as a "mack" or "pimp" or some other sorry ass "nigga" version of what it is to be good with women.
You're what, 35 years old? Shouldn't you be out with women instead of on your keyboard all day getting close to 4000 posts? That is just sad.
The fact that someone who is 26 and has never had a gf can call you sad, that means you REALLY must be pathetic.
Stop living in your little fantasy world. No one is buying your ****.
MindOverMatter
Master Don Juan
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Actually I think he got under your skin. You called him a keyboard jockey, he pulled out pictures of himself with his women. Then you called his girls 4s and 5s, while ignoring the fact you posted a thread in which you say you're depressed because you're 26 and have never even had a gf. Right now you're arguing out of your ass while trying to save face, and he's just laughing at you.
Another example of why people in glass houses shouldn't throw stones.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
disciple
Senior Don Juan
Damn it man, you need a whole attitude transplant. Don't you know that your attitude is the biggest factor in whether you attract women or not. Looks and a nice body might get you initial attention, but its your attitude that really grabs them. If your having trouble gaining weight, start a workout regimen based on calisthenics. Calisthenics are exercises that use your own body weight for resistance like pushups, pullups, dips, sit-ups, etc. These exercises will give you a nice, well defined build and although they might not get you huge right away they will help you pack on some muscle and look better in your clothes. Another benefit is that resistance training also affects your attitude and mind state in a positive way by increasing your testosterone levels and natural male aggressiveness which I think you could definitely use (especially with that "I'm a loser" type of attitude you have now). Also, stop worrying about not having a girlfriend or about what happened in the past, start focusing on getting yourself together mentally, emotionally, and physically. The rest will come if you always look to improve yourself and learn, learn, learn. This is a good place to start your journey but ultimately your journey will be one of self-discovery and self-development. In other words, you can read every tip or post on this site but unless you start to think for yourself, learn more about what kind of guy you really are (not a loser), and start to find and appreciate your own unique strengths, you'll continue to feel as you do and you won't get anywhere. Hope that helps you because I can tell you really need it man.
1) Any guy can get a girlfriend. Their are TONS of HB1s with self confidence issues. Ask 100 out you will be fine.
2) Attitude is everything. If you think you suck no one will argue. If you think you rock people will argue but not as much as you might think.
3) All of your problems are in wanting a HB8 but only putting in HB7 work etc. If you want hot women to want you concentrate on getting rich, getting buff and getting conversation skills.
Toast masters is good for conversation skills
Ameritrade is good for getting rich. If you save 50% of your $$ you can retire in 8-9 years.
And trust me if you were nailing your HB1 gf and she was good to you and not complaining etc your life would be better than wishing for HB8.
2) Attitude is everything. If you think you suck no one will argue. If you think you rock people will argue but not as much as you might think.
3) All of your problems are in wanting a HB8 but only putting in HB7 work etc. If you want hot women to want you concentrate on getting rich, getting buff and getting conversation skills.
Toast masters is good for conversation skills
Ameritrade is good for getting rich. If you save 50% of your $$ you can retire in 8-9 years.
And trust me if you were nailing your HB1 gf and she was good to you and not complaining etc your life would be better than wishing for HB8.
Relax and realize......
this is'nt the best site for improving your skills at meeting
women.
Go hang out at Fastseduction.com. And get some friends
who can be supportive of you. Sadly , this site doesn't seem
to offer that much compassion for you.
I was feeling down a couple of weeks ago thinking nothing
will ever change--I am just not good looking enough for women.
God sent me a little angle--a neighbor who is a NATURAL. We started going out and I am at least getting some IOI -which has
greatly enhanced my opinion of myself.
Go to Fastseduction.com and find the area where you can find some wings..
Good luck
this is'nt the best site for improving your skills at meeting
women.
Go hang out at Fastseduction.com. And get some friends
who can be supportive of you. Sadly , this site doesn't seem
to offer that much compassion for you.
I was feeling down a couple of weeks ago thinking nothing
will ever change--I am just not good looking enough for women.
God sent me a little angle--a neighbor who is a NATURAL. We started going out and I am at least getting some IOI -which has
greatly enhanced my opinion of myself.
Go to Fastseduction.com and find the area where you can find some wings..
Good luck
things are simple people make them hard
if you are sorry that you ain't getting pu$$y then pay for it and get on with your life
if you aint got monyey, then work for it
if you work out and get no results, then find yourself someone who will teach you what to do.. l
ike my uncle says there is no sense in reinventing the wheel, if you wanna start a business, first investigate the guy/firm etc who does that business best and copy it. Then you will find ways to do things better yourself
if you are sorry that you ain't getting pu$$y then pay for it and get on with your life
if you aint got monyey, then work for it
if you work out and get no results, then find yourself someone who will teach you what to do.. l
ike my uncle says there is no sense in reinventing the wheel, if you wanna start a business, first investigate the guy/firm etc who does that business best and copy it. Then you will find ways to do things better yourself
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Lost In Translation
Master Don Juan
-HPNOTIQ- is right on the money in my opinion
Quote - -HPNOTIQ-
But seriously bobbob..if you've spent any time on this board, reading the posts on here and understanding the stuff written..you should have known you'd be flamed for such a sappy, "FEEL SORRY FOR ME", excuse for a post.
We aren't here to be your emotional tampon. You found the site..great! You read the DJB..great! You are changing your life around...great! But hell, for you first post...you're going to post some boo woo stuff about I've never had a GF at 26 crap.
Leave the AFC talk at home bro. You want specific help..you've come to the right place...but man, leave your Klenex at home.
We don't need to be your cheerleaders...you ALREADY KNOW wtf you have to do FROM NOW ON...so stop your whining..stop feeling sorry for yourself...prove me wrong..prove all those women who turned you down wrong.
PROVE YOUR F*CKING SELF WRONG!
my thoughts exactly
Bruce Lee couldn't put on any weight.
Go buy a poster of him with his shirt off in ENTER THE DRAGON.
if you going to be skinny and you think you are genetically trapped do what Bruce Lee did
turn it into STEEL
Lost In Translation
**AUSTRALIAN STREET PIMP**
Quote: Don Juanabbe
“ What are you Vanilla-bloody-Ice? “
Quote: Player_Supreme
“ But if a ho wants to just be friends then don't waste your time. And I'm a debase character so your hooking up with her friend in front of her was sweet to my ears. “
Quote: Player_Supreme
“I've taken a fat chick and put her on a diet and training program and created my own super ho. “
Quote: PuertoRican_Lover
“First off - she is just another hor who has opened her legs to another man - you are no one special - and there are no "Greatest" to hors - you are just the next pimp in line!!! “
Quote: squirrels
“ You NEVER pay as a supplicative or bargaining measure, though. The reward that she gets for her affection is YOUR affection. The reward she gets for her sex is YOUR sex. The second you start buying her stuff to keep her around, keep her entertained in your presence, etc...you're compensating for not having what it takes to seduce the woman, and that's totally unacceptable. “
Quote - -HPNOTIQ-
But seriously bobbob..if you've spent any time on this board, reading the posts on here and understanding the stuff written..you should have known you'd be flamed for such a sappy, "FEEL SORRY FOR ME", excuse for a post.
We aren't here to be your emotional tampon. You found the site..great! You read the DJB..great! You are changing your life around...great! But hell, for you first post...you're going to post some boo woo stuff about I've never had a GF at 26 crap.
Leave the AFC talk at home bro. You want specific help..you've come to the right place...but man, leave your Klenex at home.
We don't need to be your cheerleaders...you ALREADY KNOW wtf you have to do FROM NOW ON...so stop your whining..stop feeling sorry for yourself...prove me wrong..prove all those women who turned you down wrong.
PROVE YOUR F*CKING SELF WRONG!
my thoughts exactly
Bruce Lee couldn't put on any weight.
Go buy a poster of him with his shirt off in ENTER THE DRAGON.
if you going to be skinny and you think you are genetically trapped do what Bruce Lee did
turn it into STEEL
Lost In Translation
**AUSTRALIAN STREET PIMP**
Quote: Don Juanabbe
“ What are you Vanilla-bloody-Ice? “
Quote: Player_Supreme
“ But if a ho wants to just be friends then don't waste your time. And I'm a debase character so your hooking up with her friend in front of her was sweet to my ears. “
Quote: Player_Supreme
“I've taken a fat chick and put her on a diet and training program and created my own super ho. “
Quote: PuertoRican_Lover
“First off - she is just another hor who has opened her legs to another man - you are no one special - and there are no "Greatest" to hors - you are just the next pimp in line!!! “
Quote: squirrels
“ You NEVER pay as a supplicative or bargaining measure, though. The reward that she gets for her affection is YOUR affection. The reward she gets for her sex is YOUR sex. The second you start buying her stuff to keep her around, keep her entertained in your presence, etc...you're compensating for not having what it takes to seduce the woman, and that's totally unacceptable. “
Aztec
Master Don Juan
Don't worry my man. You'll get one or two. Just don't delve too much in GETTING a gf. Look for a hobby. Easy to say buy it's true.
i recommend "the slumpbuster" you go out and find the nastiest gnarliest HB3esque ho (HB1 would be traumatic)you can find- spit your game at her- hit it, get with her, learn a little bit about her, dump her, then move onto a HB4 and on and on till you are with a HB8.
Player_Supreme
Banned
I don't think this uhhh fellow comes here anymore. .
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.