"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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25 year old and hatin the loveshack

the_wanderer

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Hi guys, long time lurker, first time poster-25 year old post grad student. After being burned on several occasion's by women, I decided to search for dating tips and voila I found Neil Strauss and other PUA material (this site included). Being an introvert is hard but staying as one and being spineless is even worse. So I decided to change.


What I do hate is the forum known as the loveshack. It's completely run by women who give dating advice to men, Ive tried using some from there and well it never worked. Reverse actually. I learned that women never want or act what they say. I got banned because I was bordering on insulting when I was stating relevant views.

At present I am seeing 3 different women and while I do like the player aspect of it, I may choose between the 3 eventually.

Glad to be here.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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DJCorleone

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haha loveshack, that forum looks like a pile of crap, and i've been on there about 5 minutes.

read the dj bible bro, did me a world of good...
 

WaterTiger

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Welcome home Wanderer!

The "DJ Bible" is the best threads from this site all bundled up in an e-book of sorts. The link is at the bottom left side of the screen.


Curious, what major is your grad work in?
 

Badmannaz

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YEA CHICKS ONLY TALK CONCERING THE MOMENT...i learned when a chick says

YOU WILL NEVER SLEEP WITH ME YOUR NOT ATTRACTICTIVE....WHAT SHE REALLY MEANS IS...(RIGHT NOW) I WOULD NEVER SLEEP WITH YOU...AND (RIGHT NOW) YOUR NOT ATTRACTIVE...

YOU could say i've had luck with girls who promised they would never do it with me and did lol hahahha
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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