"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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25 year old and hatin the loveshack

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the_wanderer

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Hi guys, long time lurker, first time poster-25 year old post grad student. After being burned on several occasion's by women, I decided to search for dating tips and voila I found Neil Strauss and other PUA material (this site included). Being an introvert is hard but staying as one and being spineless is even worse. So I decided to change.


What I do hate is the forum known as the loveshack. It's completely run by women who give dating advice to men, Ive tried using some from there and well it never worked. Reverse actually. I learned that women never want or act what they say. I got banned because I was bordering on insulting when I was stating relevant views.

At present I am seeing 3 different women and while I do like the player aspect of it, I may choose between the 3 eventually.

Glad to be here.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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DJCorleone

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haha loveshack, that forum looks like a pile of crap, and i've been on there about 5 minutes.

read the dj bible bro, did me a world of good...
 
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WaterTiger

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Welcome home Wanderer!

The "DJ Bible" is the best threads from this site all bundled up in an e-book of sorts. The link is at the bottom left side of the screen.


Curious, what major is your grad work in?
 
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Badmannaz

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YEA CHICKS ONLY TALK CONCERING THE MOMENT...i learned when a chick says

YOU WILL NEVER SLEEP WITH ME YOUR NOT ATTRACTICTIVE....WHAT SHE REALLY MEANS IS...(RIGHT NOW) I WOULD NEVER SLEEP WITH YOU...AND (RIGHT NOW) YOUR NOT ATTRACTIVE...

YOU could say i've had luck with girls who promised they would never do it with me and did lol hahahha
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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