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25, earning well, not uni educated, can I attract educated women?

Phoenix88

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Hello all,

I'm new here, I'm 25 and I am a financial adviser from the UK, which I am based in London.

I went to university to read Business degree, failed my first year and decided dropped out at 19.

Cut story short, I did 2 years of an apprenticeship, took qualifications, then became a paraplanner. I did this for 3 years while taking chartered qualifications and am now IFA qualified and earning in the region of $78k. This is due to having solid work experience. My salary can rise up to $140k up to 30 depending on the amount of quality work experience.

The work is very interested, however, very long hours but very well paid.

I'm now in the process of purchasing a home and looking for a long term relationship.

My only anxiety is that I'm not university educated and there are many, many women with university degrees. These women may be concerned about their social status and may just want to date a guy or be with a guy who has a university degree.

I'm well qualified, earning well, looking to purchase a new home, but no degree, is there a way to attract these degree educated women? I'm talking about professional Accountants, Lawyers, Business professionals.

Thanks.

Matt
 

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Hello Matt,

Let me answer another one of your topics, this time in a very simple way:

Yes, you can attract these girls! How? Well since you obviously remember never qualifying to a woman, she will - at the beginning - never know what you actually do, and what degree you actually hold.
You want to find a LTR that takes you for 'YOU', not your degree.

I have my own business, and I am studying to become a doctor on the site; even though those two things work like a charm towards the young selfish 20'year old, I never mention this - unless I just want a fast ons.

Good luck Matt!
 

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honestly i dont think it matters if you already have a well paying job/career
 
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foreverAFC said:
honestly i dont think it matters if you already have a well paying job/career

This. Earning potential trumps intelligence, as far as women go.

I know some very intelligent people that never got their college degree - I also know some stupid people that did.
 

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what about a guy who works at a grocery store but still lives with his parents? i was unemployed for a year until last month, but i at least have a car, and the fact i have a job again should mean i am being somewhat responsible
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Phoenix88 said:
Hello all,

I'm new here, I'm 25 and I am a financial adviser from the UK, which I am based in London.

I went to university to read Business degree, failed my first year and decided dropped out at 19.

Cut story short, I did 2 years of an apprenticeship, took qualifications, then became a paraplanner. I did this for 3 years while taking chartered qualifications and am now IFA qualified and earning in the region of $78k. This is due to having solid work experience. My salary can rise up to $140k up to 30 depending on the amount of quality work experience.

The work is very interested, however, very long hours but very well paid.

I'm now in the process of purchasing a home and looking for a long term relationship.

My only anxiety is that I'm not university educated and there are many, many women with university degrees. These women may be concerned about their social status and may just want to date a guy or be with a guy who has a university degree.

I'm well qualified, earning well, looking to purchase a new home, but no degree, is there a way to attract these degree educated women? I'm talking about professional Accountants, Lawyers, Business professionals.

Thanks.

Matt
Women are attracted to ambition, value/percieved value... you dont even have to have a great job...just have the ambition and be a self loving person.
 
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