"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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25, earning well, not uni educated, can I attract educated women?

Phoenix88

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Hello all,

I'm new here, I'm 25 and I am a financial adviser from the UK, which I am based in London.

I went to university to read Business degree, failed my first year and decided dropped out at 19.

Cut story short, I did 2 years of an apprenticeship, took qualifications, then became a paraplanner. I did this for 3 years while taking chartered qualifications and am now IFA qualified and earning in the region of $78k. This is due to having solid work experience. My salary can rise up to $140k up to 30 depending on the amount of quality work experience.

The work is very interested, however, very long hours but very well paid.

I'm now in the process of purchasing a home and looking for a long term relationship.

My only anxiety is that I'm not university educated and there are many, many women with university degrees. These women may be concerned about their social status and may just want to date a guy or be with a guy who has a university degree.

I'm well qualified, earning well, looking to purchase a new home, but no degree, is there a way to attract these degree educated women? I'm talking about professional Accountants, Lawyers, Business professionals.

Thanks.

Matt
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Hello Matt,

Let me answer another one of your topics, this time in a very simple way:

Yes, you can attract these girls! How? Well since you obviously remember never qualifying to a woman, she will - at the beginning - never know what you actually do, and what degree you actually hold.
You want to find a LTR that takes you for 'YOU', not your degree.

I have my own business, and I am studying to become a doctor on the site; even though those two things work like a charm towards the young selfish 20'year old, I never mention this - unless I just want a fast ons.

Good luck Matt!
 

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honestly i dont think it matters if you already have a well paying job/career
 
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foreverAFC said:
honestly i dont think it matters if you already have a well paying job/career

This. Earning potential trumps intelligence, as far as women go.

I know some very intelligent people that never got their college degree - I also know some stupid people that did.
 

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what about a guy who works at a grocery store but still lives with his parents? i was unemployed for a year until last month, but i at least have a car, and the fact i have a job again should mean i am being somewhat responsible
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Phoenix88 said:
Hello all,

I'm new here, I'm 25 and I am a financial adviser from the UK, which I am based in London.

I went to university to read Business degree, failed my first year and decided dropped out at 19.

Cut story short, I did 2 years of an apprenticeship, took qualifications, then became a paraplanner. I did this for 3 years while taking chartered qualifications and am now IFA qualified and earning in the region of $78k. This is due to having solid work experience. My salary can rise up to $140k up to 30 depending on the amount of quality work experience.

The work is very interested, however, very long hours but very well paid.

I'm now in the process of purchasing a home and looking for a long term relationship.

My only anxiety is that I'm not university educated and there are many, many women with university degrees. These women may be concerned about their social status and may just want to date a guy or be with a guy who has a university degree.

I'm well qualified, earning well, looking to purchase a new home, but no degree, is there a way to attract these degree educated women? I'm talking about professional Accountants, Lawyers, Business professionals.

Thanks.

Matt
Women are attracted to ambition, value/percieved value... you dont even have to have a great job...just have the ambition and be a self loving person.
 
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