"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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25, earning well, not uni educated, can I attract educated women?

Phoenix88

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Hello all,

I'm new here, I'm 25 and I am a financial adviser from the UK, which I am based in London.

I went to university to read Business degree, failed my first year and decided dropped out at 19.

Cut story short, I did 2 years of an apprenticeship, took qualifications, then became a paraplanner. I did this for 3 years while taking chartered qualifications and am now IFA qualified and earning in the region of $78k. This is due to having solid work experience. My salary can rise up to $140k up to 30 depending on the amount of quality work experience.

The work is very interested, however, very long hours but very well paid.

I'm now in the process of purchasing a home and looking for a long term relationship.

My only anxiety is that I'm not university educated and there are many, many women with university degrees. These women may be concerned about their social status and may just want to date a guy or be with a guy who has a university degree.

I'm well qualified, earning well, looking to purchase a new home, but no degree, is there a way to attract these degree educated women? I'm talking about professional Accountants, Lawyers, Business professionals.

Thanks.

Matt
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Hello Matt,

Let me answer another one of your topics, this time in a very simple way:

Yes, you can attract these girls! How? Well since you obviously remember never qualifying to a woman, she will - at the beginning - never know what you actually do, and what degree you actually hold.
You want to find a LTR that takes you for 'YOU', not your degree.

I have my own business, and I am studying to become a doctor on the site; even though those two things work like a charm towards the young selfish 20'year old, I never mention this - unless I just want a fast ons.

Good luck Matt!
 

foreverAFC

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honestly i dont think it matters if you already have a well paying job/career
 
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foreverAFC said:
honestly i dont think it matters if you already have a well paying job/career

This. Earning potential trumps intelligence, as far as women go.

I know some very intelligent people that never got their college degree - I also know some stupid people that did.
 

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what about a guy who works at a grocery store but still lives with his parents? i was unemployed for a year until last month, but i at least have a car, and the fact i have a job again should mean i am being somewhat responsible
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Phoenix88 said:
Hello all,

I'm new here, I'm 25 and I am a financial adviser from the UK, which I am based in London.

I went to university to read Business degree, failed my first year and decided dropped out at 19.

Cut story short, I did 2 years of an apprenticeship, took qualifications, then became a paraplanner. I did this for 3 years while taking chartered qualifications and am now IFA qualified and earning in the region of $78k. This is due to having solid work experience. My salary can rise up to $140k up to 30 depending on the amount of quality work experience.

The work is very interested, however, very long hours but very well paid.

I'm now in the process of purchasing a home and looking for a long term relationship.

My only anxiety is that I'm not university educated and there are many, many women with university degrees. These women may be concerned about their social status and may just want to date a guy or be with a guy who has a university degree.

I'm well qualified, earning well, looking to purchase a new home, but no degree, is there a way to attract these degree educated women? I'm talking about professional Accountants, Lawyers, Business professionals.

Thanks.

Matt
Women are attracted to ambition, value/percieved value... you dont even have to have a great job...just have the ambition and be a self loving person.
 
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