That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
good job, im at about 4. Its a little hard since I work 12 hr shifts 4 days a week, but im going to try to get most when Im off. 1 of mine was from at work, but we got into deep raport, so I am counting that.Originally posted by IS|Reinhart
you are more than welcome in our bootcamp. we are at week number 2 i posted the reading matirial. so we are doing atleast 10 aproaches with 2-10 minuts conversation.
got + 1 today so i'm up to 6 for now
Nice! I actually almost got a feeling that i'm the only one who is doing week number 2. Nobody else was posting their results lol.Originally posted by Shocker
good job, im at about 4. Its a little hard since I work 12 hr shifts 4 days a week, but im going to try to get most when Im off. 1 of mine was from at work, but we got into deep raport, so I am counting that.
Shocker
Yeah, I guess all the people who wanted to do this forgot that there was work required, OR no one is posting.Originally posted by IS|Reinhart
Nice! I actually almost got a feeling that i'm the only one who is doing week number 2. Nobody else was posting their results lol.
Anyway i already noticing i'm changing and becoming more sociable. Lets give the girls happiness by talking to them!
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Dude your going above and beyond and that Is what makes a winner. See my sig.Originally posted by IS|Reinhart
+2 more today 21 over all!
actually i'm not even competing i just like talking to strangers. and my job is to sell women shoes but i don count it as a approaches. Just approach that nice piece of ass as soon as u see her, so fkin what that she will reject you there are TONs of othersOriginally posted by Brian20o2
Dude your going above and beyond and that Is what makes a winner. See my sig.
Your not in a competition with us, this is more of a self challenge. Who cares if your better or worse than some kid online? What matters is how good you think and believ you are. Your a winner in life for going beyound the minimum.Originally posted by IS|Reinhart
actually i'm not even competing i just like talking to strangers. and my job is to sell women shoes but i don count it as a approaches. Just approach that nice piece of ass as soon as u see her, so fkin what that she will reject you there are TONs of others
awsome dude, Im only at 4 but I have been so busy this week. tomorrow I want to get some but honestly I dont think I will be able to get to 10, which sort of sucks. The heart is there, just not the time.Originally posted by IS|Reinhart
+3 today and i'm up to 9.
anyway i tried to call couple girls fuk phone calling is a little harder than i thought but anyway good job guys. Brian keep up man!
6 more so i'm to 15 and i got 3 phone numbers from cute gurls
+4 mroe today 19 for this week so far
+2 more today 21 over all!
Hey now. Im in. Im just staying behind so that i can get the full value of the excercise while not being locked in my house.Originally posted by Shocker
btw, it just looks like it is you and I from here on in.
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.