You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
good job, im at about 4. Its a little hard since I work 12 hr shifts 4 days a week, but im going to try to get most when Im off. 1 of mine was from at work, but we got into deep raport, so I am counting that.Originally posted by IS|Reinhart
you are more than welcome in our bootcamp. we are at week number 2 i posted the reading matirial. so we are doing atleast 10 aproaches with 2-10 minuts conversation.
got + 1 today so i'm up to 6 for now
Nice! I actually almost got a feeling that i'm the only one who is doing week number 2. Nobody else was posting their results lol.Originally posted by Shocker
good job, im at about 4. Its a little hard since I work 12 hr shifts 4 days a week, but im going to try to get most when Im off. 1 of mine was from at work, but we got into deep raport, so I am counting that.
Shocker
Yeah, I guess all the people who wanted to do this forgot that there was work required, OR no one is posting.Originally posted by IS|Reinhart
Nice! I actually almost got a feeling that i'm the only one who is doing week number 2. Nobody else was posting their results lol.
Anyway i already noticing i'm changing and becoming more sociable. Lets give the girls happiness by talking to them!
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Dude your going above and beyond and that Is what makes a winner. See my sig.Originally posted by IS|Reinhart
+2 more today 21 over all!
actually i'm not even competing i just like talking to strangers. and my job is to sell women shoes but i don count it as a approaches. Just approach that nice piece of ass as soon as u see her, so fkin what that she will reject you there are TONs of othersOriginally posted by Brian20o2
Dude your going above and beyond and that Is what makes a winner. See my sig.
Your not in a competition with us, this is more of a self challenge. Who cares if your better or worse than some kid online? What matters is how good you think and believ you are. Your a winner in life for going beyound the minimum.Originally posted by IS|Reinhart
actually i'm not even competing i just like talking to strangers. and my job is to sell women shoes but i don count it as a approaches. Just approach that nice piece of ass as soon as u see her, so fkin what that she will reject you there are TONs of others
awsome dude, Im only at 4 but I have been so busy this week. tomorrow I want to get some but honestly I dont think I will be able to get to 10, which sort of sucks. The heart is there, just not the time.Originally posted by IS|Reinhart
+3 today and i'm up to 9.
anyway i tried to call couple girls fuk phone calling is a little harder than i thought but anyway good job guys. Brian keep up man!
6 more so i'm to 15 and i got 3 phone numbers from cute gurls
+4 mroe today 19 for this week so far
+2 more today 21 over all!
Hey now. Im in. Im just staying behind so that i can get the full value of the excercise while not being locked in my house.Originally posted by Shocker
btw, it just looks like it is you and I from here on in.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.