"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

Read more...

22nd January 2nd Boot Camp week

Valar

New Member
Joined
Jan 25, 2006
Messages
5
Reaction score
0
Sorry it took so long for my first report, I haven't been able to get much free time at a computer.

I've been practicing making eye contacting and greeting strangers for about a month, with almost all results being positive, people are surprisingly friendly once you stop pretending that they can't see you and you can't see them. Most of these were with dudes or older people though, so I'm going to make it a personal goal to make EC and greet 10 HBs daily.

I have 3 conversations so far, 1 was with a HB7 and it went better than expected. The other 2 were with dudes. Approaching and breaking the ice with new people is hard for me, I have a hard time showing my personality until I get to know new people, I think that makes me come off as fake or distant at first.

Tomorrow I'm going to go out just to find strangers to talk to, I don't think I can meet the goals otherwise.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

Read more...

Top