"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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21 with 4 failed relationships - Any advice?

Doctor Europeo

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Hey
- I want a girl taller than me.
Anything helps. Thanks.
Ay Caramba bro! Good luck finding a girl who´s ok with a boyfriend who is shorter than her. Not impossible but its gonna be an uphill battle. You gonna need some serious game and a strong frame to pull and keep a girl like this.

You are still very young. This height thing might seem important now but it might not be that important down the road. Just spin plates
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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What is a successful relationship? Is every relationship you've ever had by definition a "failed" one because it didn't last forever?

At 21 you're too young for relationships. Enjoy the variety of puzzy whilst you can and try to avoid getting stuck in anything long-term.
 

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The best thing you can do is focus on women who want you. They will make the process easy on you, but not only that, they're the only women who are worth marrying.

Simping is trying to win the favor of someone you want, that doesn't want you. Best case scenario: she rejects you, bad case scenario: she uses you, worst-case scenario: she marries you.
 
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