"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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20 ways to tell you're over it

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1. You have stopped competing with your ex.

2. Hearing what your ex is up to doesn't make you cry or feel worthless or angry.

3. Memories don't hurt you or make you cry.

4. You're no longer trying to prove that you're over it - to your ex or to anyone else.

5. You've stopped reading their horoscope (assuming the ex is of a different sign).

6. You don't go to places just hoping to bump into your ex.

7. You stop trying to hack into their email or constantly checking their online diary (blog) or dating site profile.

8. Hearing a special song makes you feel nostalgic and not tearful.

9. You no longer care what your ex thinks of you.

10. You stop wondering if your ex misses you.

11. You stop making excuses to get in touch.

12. You no longer drive by their home or work (or any other place you think they might be.)

13. You have actually arrived at the conclusion the break-up was "for the best".

14. When something really good or bad happens, you, inadvertently phone someone else to share it with.

15. You've stopped counting the days and weeks since the break-up.

16. By taking your power back, you have started to go back to places you enjoyed going to, but have been avoiding, because they reminded you of your ex.

17. When you are on a date with someone new, you don't keep telling stories about your ex; nor do you compare the new person with your ex.

18. When you dream about your ex, it doesn't leave you depressed for the entire day.

19. You've stopped buying the foods your ex liked out of habit, and have started to buy the foods you like.

20. You no longer hold hope you ex will come back nor would you consider re-uniting if he or she did.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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ye yeah

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my ex is a no good *****,but. alot of those things i still do over a girl i "liked" not saying "like" anymore, and me and this girl never got 2gether lol
 

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this list shows that i am "over it" then..good to hear ;)
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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you missed a very obvious one:

21. You don't think about or imagine this is your ex when you are in bed with another girl
 

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Seems like if you don't care what happens to your ex then that pretty much sums up your entire relationship with her.
 

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Special-K said:
1.

5. You've stopped reading their horoscope (assuming the ex is of a different sign).
If you're reading horoscopes i have news for you. You're gay.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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typical

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WesCottII said:
If you're reading horoscopes i have news for you. You're gay.
and why is reading a horoscope make you gay ??? Get your head out of your a$$ some people have beliefs different then yours learn to accept it.

Back to the point nice list.
 

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There was a time when i did all 20 i think!

Not now.
 

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WesCottII said:
If you're reading horoscopes i have news for you. You're gay.

If you throw around the word gay like it means something, I have news for you. You're a tool.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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i got over my ex completley 100% went from cut about our break up and slightly pissed off at her and wanting her back to 0% interest and attraction,

wanna know how?

she got drunk at a party 2 days after our break up,kissed me was hugging me then threw up all over my shirt.. LOL

ever since then even the thought of hugging her makes me sick lol i know its not her fault she threw up it wasnt on purpouse but still freaked me out lol
 

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mrRuckus said:
If you throw around the word gay like it means something, I have news for you. You're a tool.

I'm a tool? hahaha. Yeah, i'm the vibrator your bird has to use because you can't get her off.
 

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Bump
 

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The Sperminator said:
You stop checking up on their myspace or facebook.
I still check up on her facebook, but that is because her boyfriend and her are still really good friends of mine.

I broke up with her about a year ago, but still like to hang out with her.

comic_relief
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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