"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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2 week vacation, time to create a habit.

Deus

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'Ello!

Well, starting this monday, I have a 2 week vacation (YAY!), longest vacation I've had in the last 5 years or so.

And I thought to myself, why not create a new habit at working out. when I work, I'm usually too tired to bother, but, If I make it a habit now, maybe I'll do it out of routine..

The plan:

Do 50 push ups
Do 100 sit ups
Do 3 x 7-8 reps with the weights, (training biceps and triceps).
2x 1 minute sitting with my back against the wall, with the legs in a 90 degree angle. (basicly, like sitting in a chair, without a chair...)

3 times a day, morning, when I'd usually get back from work, and before going to bed.

I have a busted left foot, so running/biking and that kinda stuff is out of the question.

Question is, will this do any good??

//Deus
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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**** yeah it will do good! Push ups might be hard with a busted foot but you can still put your knees up on an elevated surface to compensate. You'll have alot more energy as your body adapts to the increased workout load. Good luck.
 

Deus

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No, I ain't aiming to join the military, the military is what busted up my foot, so.. Been there done that??

And aye, I intend to do the pushups with my feet on the bed =)

//Deus
 

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what do you mean with will this do any good?of course it's better than nothing but it will not at all give the same results as a fullbody workout with weights.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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