"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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2 week vacation, time to create a habit.

Deus

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'Ello!

Well, starting this monday, I have a 2 week vacation (YAY!), longest vacation I've had in the last 5 years or so.

And I thought to myself, why not create a new habit at working out. when I work, I'm usually too tired to bother, but, If I make it a habit now, maybe I'll do it out of routine..

The plan:

Do 50 push ups
Do 100 sit ups
Do 3 x 7-8 reps with the weights, (training biceps and triceps).
2x 1 minute sitting with my back against the wall, with the legs in a 90 degree angle. (basicly, like sitting in a chair, without a chair...)

3 times a day, morning, when I'd usually get back from work, and before going to bed.

I have a busted left foot, so running/biking and that kinda stuff is out of the question.

Question is, will this do any good??

//Deus
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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**** yeah it will do good! Push ups might be hard with a busted foot but you can still put your knees up on an elevated surface to compensate. You'll have alot more energy as your body adapts to the increased workout load. Good luck.
 

Deus

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No, I ain't aiming to join the military, the military is what busted up my foot, so.. Been there done that??

And aye, I intend to do the pushups with my feet on the bed =)

//Deus
 

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what do you mean with will this do any good?of course it's better than nothing but it will not at all give the same results as a fullbody workout with weights.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

Read more...

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