Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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2 week vacation, time to create a habit.

Deus

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'Ello!

Well, starting this monday, I have a 2 week vacation (YAY!), longest vacation I've had in the last 5 years or so.

And I thought to myself, why not create a new habit at working out. when I work, I'm usually too tired to bother, but, If I make it a habit now, maybe I'll do it out of routine..

The plan:

Do 50 push ups
Do 100 sit ups
Do 3 x 7-8 reps with the weights, (training biceps and triceps).
2x 1 minute sitting with my back against the wall, with the legs in a 90 degree angle. (basicly, like sitting in a chair, without a chair...)

3 times a day, morning, when I'd usually get back from work, and before going to bed.

I have a busted left foot, so running/biking and that kinda stuff is out of the question.

Question is, will this do any good??

//Deus
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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**** yeah it will do good! Push ups might be hard with a busted foot but you can still put your knees up on an elevated surface to compensate. You'll have alot more energy as your body adapts to the increased workout load. Good luck.
 

Deus

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No, I ain't aiming to join the military, the military is what busted up my foot, so.. Been there done that??

And aye, I intend to do the pushups with my feet on the bed =)

//Deus
 

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what do you mean with will this do any good?of course it's better than nothing but it will not at all give the same results as a fullbody workout with weights.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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