Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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okay I am in Germany right now for school. there is this chick I know and I have been talking to her on the phone a good bit. she has drunk called me twice. she lives in a town that is like 4 hours away however and I'm trying to figure out what would be the best way to go about arranging someway we can meet up without seeming desperate. like I wouldn't mind just going to her town but that seems like there are too many uncertainties. what do you guys think

also, I had a dream where her and I had sex and I was wondering if it would be cool to maybe tell her about this dream or hint about what happened in the dream. just to get her thinking about the two of us having sex.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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LOL
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dont mention your dream to her unless you are already intimate together...

If you wanna meet up just say something like.. "hey we should meet up sometime i have a weekend off coming up soon if you'r interested "


I wouldn't travel 4 hours for a girl personally but to each their own :rock:
 
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yeah I usually wouldn't do this kinda thing, but I wanna see more of Germany and have a girl show me around. hehe.
 
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anyone else have an opinion? I was under the impression that sex talk was good cause it forces the girl to think about us having sex.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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hmm, ever just joked about sex. It shows confidance and a desire to sex her. And it will make her think about the sex. It makes the whole occasion less of a big deal too. If it is a joke.

But for heavens sake don't tell her you dreampt about it. Have you ever read a guy say "whenever you talk to a girl, look at her tits, shes bound to love it"
 
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