"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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okay I am in Germany right now for school. there is this chick I know and I have been talking to her on the phone a good bit. she has drunk called me twice. she lives in a town that is like 4 hours away however and I'm trying to figure out what would be the best way to go about arranging someway we can meet up without seeming desperate. like I wouldn't mind just going to her town but that seems like there are too many uncertainties. what do you guys think

also, I had a dream where her and I had sex and I was wondering if it would be cool to maybe tell her about this dream or hint about what happened in the dream. just to get her thinking about the two of us having sex.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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dont mention your dream to her unless you are already intimate together...

If you wanna meet up just say something like.. "hey we should meet up sometime i have a weekend off coming up soon if you'r interested "


I wouldn't travel 4 hours for a girl personally but to each their own :rock:
 
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yeah I usually wouldn't do this kinda thing, but I wanna see more of Germany and have a girl show me around. hehe.
 
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anyone else have an opinion? I was under the impression that sex talk was good cause it forces the girl to think about us having sex.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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hmm, ever just joked about sex. It shows confidance and a desire to sex her. And it will make her think about the sex. It makes the whole occasion less of a big deal too. If it is a joke.

But for heavens sake don't tell her you dreampt about it. Have you ever read a guy say "whenever you talk to a girl, look at her tits, shes bound to love it"
 
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