"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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okay I am in Germany right now for school. there is this chick I know and I have been talking to her on the phone a good bit. she has drunk called me twice. she lives in a town that is like 4 hours away however and I'm trying to figure out what would be the best way to go about arranging someway we can meet up without seeming desperate. like I wouldn't mind just going to her town but that seems like there are too many uncertainties. what do you guys think

also, I had a dream where her and I had sex and I was wondering if it would be cool to maybe tell her about this dream or hint about what happened in the dream. just to get her thinking about the two of us having sex.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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pingpongz

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LOL
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dont mention your dream to her unless you are already intimate together...

If you wanna meet up just say something like.. "hey we should meet up sometime i have a weekend off coming up soon if you'r interested "


I wouldn't travel 4 hours for a girl personally but to each their own :rock:
 
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yeah I usually wouldn't do this kinda thing, but I wanna see more of Germany and have a girl show me around. hehe.
 
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cloneofstenyhoyer

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anyone else have an opinion? I was under the impression that sex talk was good cause it forces the girl to think about us having sex.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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hmm, ever just joked about sex. It shows confidance and a desire to sex her. And it will make her think about the sex. It makes the whole occasion less of a big deal too. If it is a joke.

But for heavens sake don't tell her you dreampt about it. Have you ever read a guy say "whenever you talk to a girl, look at her tits, shes bound to love it"
 
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