DonGiovanni
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im at a stand still. Im afc because im not getting results and idk what to do. idk where to go from here. any reading or videos i can watch to lift my spirits?
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Read through the DJ bible, here's the link:
http://www.jbspencer.com/djb/
try the DJbootcamp in there.
http://www.jbspencer.com/djb/
try the DJbootcamp in there.
I'd also be more selective with the girls you deal with. Make strict rules how much Bullsh*t you're willing to accept, and dump those girls that don't suit your expectations.
And remember, it only takes a few seconds to meet a new girl, many people make the mistake that they spend weeks trying to turn around a certain girl, while in the same time they could meet dozens of new girls. It's a simple numbers game
And remember, it only takes a few seconds to meet a new girl, many people make the mistake that they spend weeks trying to turn around a certain girl, while in the same time they could meet dozens of new girls. It's a simple numbers game
Okay, here's the deal.
1. Leave it for some time!
2. Observe people, how guys interact with girls.
3. Turn blind and approach one girl daily.
That's all you do.
Go for it, my friend. You will lift your spirits. And do remember the story, where a player teaches a novice how to pick up women. He approaches 20 women and gets number from 2. That's a player.
So keep that in mind.
1. Leave it for some time!
2. Observe people, how guys interact with girls.
3. Turn blind and approach one girl daily.
That's all you do.
Go for it, my friend. You will lift your spirits. And do remember the story, where a player teaches a novice how to pick up women. He approaches 20 women and gets number from 2. That's a player.
So keep that in mind.