DonGiovanni
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im at a stand still. Im afc because im not getting results and idk what to do. idk where to go from here. any reading or videos i can watch to lift my spirits?
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
2 steps forward 3 steps back
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Read through the DJ bible, here's the link:
http://www.jbspencer.com/djb/
try the DJbootcamp in there.
http://www.jbspencer.com/djb/
try the DJbootcamp in there.
I'd also be more selective with the girls you deal with. Make strict rules how much Bullsh*t you're willing to accept, and dump those girls that don't suit your expectations.
And remember, it only takes a few seconds to meet a new girl, many people make the mistake that they spend weeks trying to turn around a certain girl, while in the same time they could meet dozens of new girls. It's a simple numbers game
And remember, it only takes a few seconds to meet a new girl, many people make the mistake that they spend weeks trying to turn around a certain girl, while in the same time they could meet dozens of new girls. It's a simple numbers game
Okay, here's the deal.
1. Leave it for some time!
2. Observe people, how guys interact with girls.
3. Turn blind and approach one girl daily.
That's all you do.
Go for it, my friend. You will lift your spirits. And do remember the story, where a player teaches a novice how to pick up women. He approaches 20 women and gets number from 2. That's a player.
So keep that in mind.
1. Leave it for some time!
2. Observe people, how guys interact with girls.
3. Turn blind and approach one girl daily.
That's all you do.
Go for it, my friend. You will lift your spirits. And do remember the story, where a player teaches a novice how to pick up women. He approaches 20 women and gets number from 2. That's a player.
So keep that in mind.