DonGiovanni
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im at a stand still. Im afc because im not getting results and idk what to do. idk where to go from here. any reading or videos i can watch to lift my spirits?
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Read through the DJ bible, here's the link:
http://www.jbspencer.com/djb/
try the DJbootcamp in there.
http://www.jbspencer.com/djb/
try the DJbootcamp in there.
I'd also be more selective with the girls you deal with. Make strict rules how much Bullsh*t you're willing to accept, and dump those girls that don't suit your expectations.
And remember, it only takes a few seconds to meet a new girl, many people make the mistake that they spend weeks trying to turn around a certain girl, while in the same time they could meet dozens of new girls. It's a simple numbers game
And remember, it only takes a few seconds to meet a new girl, many people make the mistake that they spend weeks trying to turn around a certain girl, while in the same time they could meet dozens of new girls. It's a simple numbers game
Okay, here's the deal.
1. Leave it for some time!
2. Observe people, how guys interact with girls.
3. Turn blind and approach one girl daily.
That's all you do.
Go for it, my friend. You will lift your spirits. And do remember the story, where a player teaches a novice how to pick up women. He approaches 20 women and gets number from 2. That's a player.
So keep that in mind.
1. Leave it for some time!
2. Observe people, how guys interact with girls.
3. Turn blind and approach one girl daily.
That's all you do.
Go for it, my friend. You will lift your spirits. And do remember the story, where a player teaches a novice how to pick up women. He approaches 20 women and gets number from 2. That's a player.
So keep that in mind.