"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Okay, so this girl and I both like each other (or atleast her friends tell me she likes me) and so I've chilled with her a few times but was c*ckblocked all the times I hung with her. So Friday night i saw her for liek 2 seconds and then i had to go and later that night she texted me and was like I have to talk to you..not bad lol

so the next day on the way home from snowboarding i called her and we decided to hang out and then i called her back and was like ohh by the way what did you have to tell me...and shes liek dont worry about it ill tell u later. so what do you guys think it could possibly be.

NEXT...there was a party to go to last night so me her my friend and her friend decided to go for a little then my friend and i were thinking of inviting them back to his house for some poon. (btw thru this night i was stoned cause i couldnt drink) so we hang at the party for like an hour - girls are drunk and so is my friend - and so i'm like alright this is bad, you guys wanan go to Jon's(my friend's) house and so my girl gave her friend like the "eye" if you know what i mean like the GOOD eye lol. but her friend i'm assumign didnt want to go. am i in here or is it still questionable.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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She's predicting sex...make it so that she can't predict it.



She probably is playing the anticipation game with you. She just wanted to see how you'd react when she said "oh I'll tell you later"....If you reacted in a cool fashion, you passed....if you got over excited and gave it away, you failed.

That is all.
 
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Originally posted by DJ4Real
She's predicting sex...make it so that she can't predict it.



She probably is playing the anticipation game with you. She just wanted to see how you'd react when she said "oh I'll tell you later"....If you reacted in a cool fashion, you passed....if you got over excited and gave it away, you failed.

That is all.
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and how can i do that?
 
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****y and funny....

When you guys are chillin at your place or whatever....and she's all over you, touching you and whatever.....Say something ****y and funny "I knew that you wanted to have sex with me, I could see it in your eyes" she'll say something like "wow, you're amazing"....then you could say "I know, and as amazing as I am, I wasn't planning on having sex with you"....she'll be shocked "really?!" you could say " Yeah really....don't look so shocked, I'm not all that easy..".....and the convo could go on for 10 minutes....
 
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haha i like that im not that easy part thanks dude lol
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Originally posted by DJ4Real
****y and funny....

When you guys are chillin at your place or whatever....and she's all over you, touching you and whatever.....Say something ****y and funny "I knew that you wanted to have sex with me, I could see it in your eyes" she'll say something like "wow, you're amazing"....then you could say "I know, and as amazing as I am, I wasn't planning on having sex with you"....she'll be shocked "really?!" you could say " Yeah really....don't look so shocked, I'm not all that easy..".....and the convo could go on for 10 minutes....
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No, that's stupid. At that point she's already saying she wants to have sex with you, so why continue to try and tease her with words when you could be banging her? Girls tease, don't be a girl.
 
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Originally posted by familyguyfan
No, that's stupid. At that point she's already saying she wants to have sex with you, so why continue to try and tease her with words when you could be banging her? Girls tease, don't be a girl.
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Teasing and being a "girl" is like comparing bananas to celery.......

Obviously, you are the predictable type of guy....... Girls PREDICT that guys are going to instantly take the sex because we are "guys."
 
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no no see i don't know if she wants to have sex just cause we haevn't even made out before but i see where u guys are coming from
 
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Originally posted by DJ4Real
Teasing and being a "girl" is like comparing bananas to celery.......

Obviously, you are the predictable type of guy....... Girls PREDICT that guys are going to instantly take the sex because we are "guys."
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That's not what I'm saying. It can be very effective to tease the girl while you're still gaming the girl, but in the scenario you gave it is pointless. In that scenario the girl has already said she wants to have sex with you. So why not just go bang her instead of continuing to talk? If it's in a situation where you can't have sex with her at that moment (if you're at school and she says she would have sex with you) then yeah that's fine, but it's stupid to do it if you are in a position where you could f*ck her right there.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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