"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Okay, so this girl and I both like each other (or atleast her friends tell me she likes me) and so I've chilled with her a few times but was c*ckblocked all the times I hung with her. So Friday night i saw her for liek 2 seconds and then i had to go and later that night she texted me and was like I have to talk to you..not bad lol

so the next day on the way home from snowboarding i called her and we decided to hang out and then i called her back and was like ohh by the way what did you have to tell me...and shes liek dont worry about it ill tell u later. so what do you guys think it could possibly be.

NEXT...there was a party to go to last night so me her my friend and her friend decided to go for a little then my friend and i were thinking of inviting them back to his house for some poon. (btw thru this night i was stoned cause i couldnt drink) so we hang at the party for like an hour - girls are drunk and so is my friend - and so i'm like alright this is bad, you guys wanan go to Jon's(my friend's) house and so my girl gave her friend like the "eye" if you know what i mean like the GOOD eye lol. but her friend i'm assumign didnt want to go. am i in here or is it still questionable.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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She's predicting sex...make it so that she can't predict it.



She probably is playing the anticipation game with you. She just wanted to see how you'd react when she said "oh I'll tell you later"....If you reacted in a cool fashion, you passed....if you got over excited and gave it away, you failed.

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Originally posted by DJ4Real
She's predicting sex...make it so that she can't predict it.



She probably is playing the anticipation game with you. She just wanted to see how you'd react when she said "oh I'll tell you later"....If you reacted in a cool fashion, you passed....if you got over excited and gave it away, you failed.

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and how can i do that?
 
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****y and funny....

When you guys are chillin at your place or whatever....and she's all over you, touching you and whatever.....Say something ****y and funny "I knew that you wanted to have sex with me, I could see it in your eyes" she'll say something like "wow, you're amazing"....then you could say "I know, and as amazing as I am, I wasn't planning on having sex with you"....she'll be shocked "really?!" you could say " Yeah really....don't look so shocked, I'm not all that easy..".....and the convo could go on for 10 minutes....
 
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haha i like that im not that easy part thanks dude lol
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Originally posted by DJ4Real
****y and funny....

When you guys are chillin at your place or whatever....and she's all over you, touching you and whatever.....Say something ****y and funny "I knew that you wanted to have sex with me, I could see it in your eyes" she'll say something like "wow, you're amazing"....then you could say "I know, and as amazing as I am, I wasn't planning on having sex with you"....she'll be shocked "really?!" you could say " Yeah really....don't look so shocked, I'm not all that easy..".....and the convo could go on for 10 minutes....
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No, that's stupid. At that point she's already saying she wants to have sex with you, so why continue to try and tease her with words when you could be banging her? Girls tease, don't be a girl.
 
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Originally posted by familyguyfan
No, that's stupid. At that point she's already saying she wants to have sex with you, so why continue to try and tease her with words when you could be banging her? Girls tease, don't be a girl.
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Teasing and being a "girl" is like comparing bananas to celery.......

Obviously, you are the predictable type of guy....... Girls PREDICT that guys are going to instantly take the sex because we are "guys."
 
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no no see i don't know if she wants to have sex just cause we haevn't even made out before but i see where u guys are coming from
 
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Originally posted by DJ4Real
Teasing and being a "girl" is like comparing bananas to celery.......

Obviously, you are the predictable type of guy....... Girls PREDICT that guys are going to instantly take the sex because we are "guys."
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That's not what I'm saying. It can be very effective to tease the girl while you're still gaming the girl, but in the scenario you gave it is pointless. In that scenario the girl has already said she wants to have sex with you. So why not just go bang her instead of continuing to talk? If it's in a situation where you can't have sex with her at that moment (if you're at school and she says she would have sex with you) then yeah that's fine, but it's stupid to do it if you are in a position where you could f*ck her right there.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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