"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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2 plates, should i drop one?

morepoonplease

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Alright fellas, been a while... i'll make this short... i'm in college, my parents are 800km away, which is where plate # 1 is... she thinks were dating lol... plate #2 is 20km away... both girls are good in the sack... just fvcked #2 for the first time lastnight... thing is i'm getting worried with all the fb nonsense these days and i'm afraid someone is gunna snitch me out on this, bc #1 always writes on my wall... i dont have plate 2 on fb b/c i told her i never use it... should i drop the plate 800k away? shes great to have b/c shes a nice piece when i visit home and plus she buses it here every now and then to visit... i'm thinking keep both and reap the rewards but i've been sketching lately. ideas?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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808

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Agreed with SandHawk. Don't drop either plate. In fact, why don't you add some plates that are less than 20km away?

From what I can tell, you're not committed to either, so there's no excuse not to.
 

Zarky

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4 girls = 4 girls
3 girls = 3 girls
2 girls = 2 girls
1 girl = 0 girls

Moral of the story, ALWAYS date 2+ women. Always. If you get a third girl then you can think about whether or not to dump the distant one. Not until.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

Read more...

joe henny

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I'm spinning 4. Keep your shlt on the low homie.
 
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