"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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2 plates, should i drop one?

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Alright fellas, been a while... i'll make this short... i'm in college, my parents are 800km away, which is where plate # 1 is... she thinks were dating lol... plate #2 is 20km away... both girls are good in the sack... just fvcked #2 for the first time lastnight... thing is i'm getting worried with all the fb nonsense these days and i'm afraid someone is gunna snitch me out on this, bc #1 always writes on my wall... i dont have plate 2 on fb b/c i told her i never use it... should i drop the plate 800k away? shes great to have b/c shes a nice piece when i visit home and plus she buses it here every now and then to visit... i'm thinking keep both and reap the rewards but i've been sketching lately. ideas?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Agreed with SandHawk. Don't drop either plate. In fact, why don't you add some plates that are less than 20km away?

From what I can tell, you're not committed to either, so there's no excuse not to.
 
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4 girls = 4 girls
3 girls = 3 girls
2 girls = 2 girls
1 girl = 0 girls

Moral of the story, ALWAYS date 2+ women. Always. If you get a third girl then you can think about whether or not to dump the distant one. Not until.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I'm spinning 4. Keep your shlt on the low homie.
 
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