"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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2 plates, should i drop one?

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Alright fellas, been a while... i'll make this short... i'm in college, my parents are 800km away, which is where plate # 1 is... she thinks were dating lol... plate #2 is 20km away... both girls are good in the sack... just fvcked #2 for the first time lastnight... thing is i'm getting worried with all the fb nonsense these days and i'm afraid someone is gunna snitch me out on this, bc #1 always writes on my wall... i dont have plate 2 on fb b/c i told her i never use it... should i drop the plate 800k away? shes great to have b/c shes a nice piece when i visit home and plus she buses it here every now and then to visit... i'm thinking keep both and reap the rewards but i've been sketching lately. ideas?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Agreed with SandHawk. Don't drop either plate. In fact, why don't you add some plates that are less than 20km away?

From what I can tell, you're not committed to either, so there's no excuse not to.
 

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4 girls = 4 girls
3 girls = 3 girls
2 girls = 2 girls
1 girl = 0 girls

Moral of the story, ALWAYS date 2+ women. Always. If you get a third girl then you can think about whether or not to dump the distant one. Not until.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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joe henny

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I'm spinning 4. Keep your shlt on the low homie.
 
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