"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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2 plates, should i drop one?

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Alright fellas, been a while... i'll make this short... i'm in college, my parents are 800km away, which is where plate # 1 is... she thinks were dating lol... plate #2 is 20km away... both girls are good in the sack... just fvcked #2 for the first time lastnight... thing is i'm getting worried with all the fb nonsense these days and i'm afraid someone is gunna snitch me out on this, bc #1 always writes on my wall... i dont have plate 2 on fb b/c i told her i never use it... should i drop the plate 800k away? shes great to have b/c shes a nice piece when i visit home and plus she buses it here every now and then to visit... i'm thinking keep both and reap the rewards but i've been sketching lately. ideas?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Agreed with SandHawk. Don't drop either plate. In fact, why don't you add some plates that are less than 20km away?

From what I can tell, you're not committed to either, so there's no excuse not to.
 

Zarky

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4 girls = 4 girls
3 girls = 3 girls
2 girls = 2 girls
1 girl = 0 girls

Moral of the story, ALWAYS date 2+ women. Always. If you get a third girl then you can think about whether or not to dump the distant one. Not until.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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joe henny

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I'm spinning 4. Keep your shlt on the low homie.
 
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