"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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2 plates are friends! What can I do?

Huffman

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OK guys, I need some advice!

Earlier this week, some girl asked me out to go to a festival on Sat. Let's call her "A". She's a bit shy and looks are average, but when I talked to her I got a boner, so I said yes!

NOW today at staff gettogether I met this OTHER girl who is HOT and into me! I applied good kino and she was touching back! Lets call her "B".

PROBLEM: as we're talking she says "do you know A, she works near you" - "yeah" - "oh, she told me she's going to the festival with a guy, that must be you!" - "yeah thats me... (changed topic here, haha!)". HOWEVER, even after that we kept touching and I took the number, so green light!

Now what!? Both have the hots for me, but the're friends! I don't want to choose! But even if I choose, one will hate me for dumping the other!
How do I pull this off!? I have a date with A, but want to sex B! Or both!

GRRRRRRRRRRRR!
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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P.S.: There is actually a chance that I run into both at the festival. How the hell do I proceed.
 

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They're not plates until their lips have been wrapped around your raging hardon. Until then, they are prospects.

As for your question: Why bother? If one of them asks what the deal with the other girl is, just tell them you're friends, even if it's in front of them. And when you've singled them out, you make out. Confuses the hell out of them, keeps your intentions hidden and allows options to bang the other girl.

In the long run they'll find out no matter what you try, so unless you want an LTR with one of them, just make it clear that you're only interested in sex.
 

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LMFAOOO "two plates are friends"

Unless you've claimed exclusivity, all a girl assumed about you if you're spinning multiple plates is that you're a pre-selected alpha male who must have an amazingly tasty di*k.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Huffman

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SandHawk said:
just make it clear that you're only interested in sex.
Okay prospects if you so want. Yes I think I should. The only reason why I wrote this is that one of them is pretty much AFC girl and I'm feeling guilty, even though nothing happened yet ;)

But you're right. This time I won't hold back because I'm afraid of being an ass. Me first, this time. I'll just try to pull it off without straight lying.
 

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Everything is going really well! Your faith is justified so far! A is fine, and quickly went out with B during work break. Damn she is interested! Was already texting me over the weekend. But funnily she then was reluctant to go. Was probably a test, because I said "cmon lets go" and everything was fine after that. Perfect mini-date, kino etc, she's into me. I gotta follow up soon.

She prolly thinks I'm a real pimp HOWEVER I'm expecting Last Minute Resistance later. How can I very quickly defuse the situation? I don't wanna get into an argument about how I'm friends with A and maybe she doesn't believe me and this and that.
Been there before, so what would you quickly say? "Blabla dont care dont worry" and continue. But not kill the mood with a discussion! Hm, maybe some smooth talk about how she turns me on, and then go for it again.

OK doing something else now before I think too much ;)
 

Julius_Seizeher

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In my experience, when they connect the dots you lose both of them. They make you the bad guy and that's that.

Must be a midwestern thing; these farmgirls are so afraid of getting played.
 
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