"Blank Mind on Dates? She's Dropping Hints You Keep Missing"

The plates get cleared and the silence lands like a brick. You can feel her waiting. Your brain offers up your commute, your job, the weather — topics that have ended more second dates than bad breath.

Here's what most guys never learn: women hand out free conversational material all night long. Tiny clues about what they actually want to discuss. Catch them and you never run out of things to say — because she's telling you what to say next.

Rule 4 of the "22 Rules" trains your ear to catch every single one.

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2 Most important questions EVER....... and i dont know how to answer them...

gregory

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Hey everyone. I am at a point in my life where i feel i have experienced so much, and had it all. And i am stuck in life. I dont know what i want to do, where i want to go, who i want to be, or anything else.

the two most important questions i pose to the DJ's are this:

1) WHAT DO YOU WANT OUT OF LIFE?

and

2) WHAT ARE YOU ABOUT?

i dont know how to answer these questions, and i want your perspectives on this too.... please dont answer with 1 or 2 lines...
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Life-Trainee

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It's a major part of life figuring out those two questions. Blessed are those who know it at an early age. I thought I knew what I wanted, now 4th year, 2nd semester in college and I'm not certain I wanna do this stuff that I major in. But you're only 16, you've much time. My advice is to try as many options as you can. That's how you really find yourself.
 

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Yeah! The "inner soul zen" questions. I think it was Richard Bach that said:

The simplest questions are the most difficult.
"Who are you?" "What are you doing?" and "Where are you going?"

The funny thing is that the answers change over time. Who you are at 18 is NOT the same person you are at 25. Your career might be totally different, and the things you want out of life will have certianly changed.

Life isn't about the destination, it's about the journey.
 
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Dude, give me a break - you are 16!! I am 25 years your senior and have yet to esperience it all!! You are not even a man for crying out loud!!!

When a woman has you hanging by your balls from the nearest tree in your vicinity and you are paying $700 a month $US for child support all the while living in a cardboard box, in the meantime she is living extravagantly at her pimp's house feeding him grapes while he is watching the Tyson boxing fight, then you'll know the reality of things and have so-called 'experience!!

Until then, don't use the word 'experience'!!!!
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Originally posted by PuertoRican_Lover
Dude, give me a break - you are 16!! I am 25 years your senior and have yet to esperience it all!! You are not even a man for crying out loud!!!

When a woman has you hanging by your balls from the nearest tree in your vicinity and you are paying $700 a month $US for child support all the while living in a cardboard box, in the meantime she is living extravagantly at her pimp's house feeding him grapes while he is watching the Tyson boxing fight, then you'll know the reality of things and have so-called 'experience!!

Until then, don't use the word 'experience'!!!!
Damn, sucks to be you!

:D
 

Hot Ice

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Originally posted by WaterTiger
Yeah! The "inner soul zen" questions. I think it was Richard Bach that said:

The simplest questions are the most difficult.
"Who are you?" "What are you doing?" and "Where are you going?"

The funny thing is that the answers change over time. Who you are at 18 is NOT the same person you are at 25. Your career might be totally different, and the things you want out of life will have certianly changed.

Life isn't about the destination, it's about the journey.
You hit the nail here.

BTW. Zen is something you SHOULD study for greater understanding.
 

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no one really knows what they want...usually the find out during their college years.

as my bro says : it's the self searching years.
...weather you live in a dorm or w/your parents, you will still experience it, as i have. these are the years where you grow as an individual and find out more about yourself

honestly speaking , im not even sure what i want.

Im majoring in graphic design 2nd year, and got a job in this field for expeience...most of the time its pretty boring i tell ya.
pretty grim future to be staring off into a computer for the rest of yoru life.

Im not even 100% certain iill be doing this after i graduate.

my friend took 2 years of CS and got out of it, going into liberal arts. He decided it wasnt for him....he blabbed about opening a store w/me, but not anytime now anyway..probably the future.
 

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I dont know what i want to do, where i want to go, who i want to be, or anything else.
Relax.

Who says you need to go anywhere, do anything, be anyone, or anything else?

Just...relax

There's nowhere to go, nothing to do, no one to be and nothing else.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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