"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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2 Most important questions EVER....... and i dont know how to answer them...

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Hey everyone. I am at a point in my life where i feel i have experienced so much, and had it all. And i am stuck in life. I dont know what i want to do, where i want to go, who i want to be, or anything else.

the two most important questions i pose to the DJ's are this:

1) WHAT DO YOU WANT OUT OF LIFE?

and

2) WHAT ARE YOU ABOUT?

i dont know how to answer these questions, and i want your perspectives on this too.... please dont answer with 1 or 2 lines...
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Life-Trainee

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It's a major part of life figuring out those two questions. Blessed are those who know it at an early age. I thought I knew what I wanted, now 4th year, 2nd semester in college and I'm not certain I wanna do this stuff that I major in. But you're only 16, you've much time. My advice is to try as many options as you can. That's how you really find yourself.
 

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Yeah! The "inner soul zen" questions. I think it was Richard Bach that said:

The simplest questions are the most difficult.
"Who are you?" "What are you doing?" and "Where are you going?"

The funny thing is that the answers change over time. Who you are at 18 is NOT the same person you are at 25. Your career might be totally different, and the things you want out of life will have certianly changed.

Life isn't about the destination, it's about the journey.
 
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Dude, give me a break - you are 16!! I am 25 years your senior and have yet to esperience it all!! You are not even a man for crying out loud!!!

When a woman has you hanging by your balls from the nearest tree in your vicinity and you are paying $700 a month $US for child support all the while living in a cardboard box, in the meantime she is living extravagantly at her pimp's house feeding him grapes while he is watching the Tyson boxing fight, then you'll know the reality of things and have so-called 'experience!!

Until then, don't use the word 'experience'!!!!
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Originally posted by PuertoRican_Lover
Dude, give me a break - you are 16!! I am 25 years your senior and have yet to esperience it all!! You are not even a man for crying out loud!!!

When a woman has you hanging by your balls from the nearest tree in your vicinity and you are paying $700 a month $US for child support all the while living in a cardboard box, in the meantime she is living extravagantly at her pimp's house feeding him grapes while he is watching the Tyson boxing fight, then you'll know the reality of things and have so-called 'experience!!

Until then, don't use the word 'experience'!!!!
Damn, sucks to be you!

:D
 

Hot Ice

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Originally posted by WaterTiger
Yeah! The "inner soul zen" questions. I think it was Richard Bach that said:

The simplest questions are the most difficult.
"Who are you?" "What are you doing?" and "Where are you going?"

The funny thing is that the answers change over time. Who you are at 18 is NOT the same person you are at 25. Your career might be totally different, and the things you want out of life will have certianly changed.

Life isn't about the destination, it's about the journey.
You hit the nail here.

BTW. Zen is something you SHOULD study for greater understanding.
 

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no one really knows what they want...usually the find out during their college years.

as my bro says : it's the self searching years.
...weather you live in a dorm or w/your parents, you will still experience it, as i have. these are the years where you grow as an individual and find out more about yourself

honestly speaking , im not even sure what i want.

Im majoring in graphic design 2nd year, and got a job in this field for expeience...most of the time its pretty boring i tell ya.
pretty grim future to be staring off into a computer for the rest of yoru life.

Im not even 100% certain iill be doing this after i graduate.

my friend took 2 years of CS and got out of it, going into liberal arts. He decided it wasnt for him....he blabbed about opening a store w/me, but not anytime now anyway..probably the future.
 

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I dont know what i want to do, where i want to go, who i want to be, or anything else.
Relax.

Who says you need to go anywhere, do anything, be anyone, or anything else?

Just...relax

There's nowhere to go, nothing to do, no one to be and nothing else.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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