"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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2 girls HB5 and a HB9

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ohiofutballa

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well my present girlfriend and i were friends for about 10 months before anything happened, i will post a extensive post on what i did to get out of the friend zone.... but with me being a tired pvssy i dont feel like it right now.......so heres a shortened ohiofutballa opinion

I think that you have to make your mind up on which one you want to pursue, theres nothing i can really say there because i dont know which one you favor or not. So make up your mind.... If you pick the hb5 and if shes still quiet, just get to know her and let her get to know you...but dont let it become a friendship, always joke around with her about going out, relations, sex...whatever you and her are comfortable with get her digits and ask her out

And for the hb 9...it will take effort and ill post what i had to go through in the next few days....well i hope this little bit helps

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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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"We are more like friends with benefits (without the sexual stuff.)"

hahahaha, is that possible?
 
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lol ^no. It'd be like...friends. and we all know how fun being friends is:rolleyes:

I won't read the post as I'm lazy.
HB9>HB5. You're the man, man. be confident. Don't lower yourself to a puny-5. fawk that.
 
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Ur judging people on how you think others would judge them. If you like the girl you labelled a HB5, go for it (as the Young Guns said). This other girl, i have a feeling that you are only going for her to make you popular (she dated a sophomore . . .).

Go for the one you want and stuff it. Just remember to be confident.
 
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