"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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2 girls HB5 and a HB9

ohiofutballa

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well my present girlfriend and i were friends for about 10 months before anything happened, i will post a extensive post on what i did to get out of the friend zone.... but with me being a tired pvssy i dont feel like it right now.......so heres a shortened ohiofutballa opinion

I think that you have to make your mind up on which one you want to pursue, theres nothing i can really say there because i dont know which one you favor or not. So make up your mind.... If you pick the hb5 and if shes still quiet, just get to know her and let her get to know you...but dont let it become a friendship, always joke around with her about going out, relations, sex...whatever you and her are comfortable with get her digits and ask her out

And for the hb 9...it will take effort and ill post what i had to go through in the next few days....well i hope this little bit helps

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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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"We are more like friends with benefits (without the sexual stuff.)"

hahahaha, is that possible?
 

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lol ^no. It'd be like...friends. and we all know how fun being friends is:rolleyes:

I won't read the post as I'm lazy.
HB9>HB5. You're the man, man. be confident. Don't lower yourself to a puny-5. fawk that.
 

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Ur judging people on how you think others would judge them. If you like the girl you labelled a HB5, go for it (as the Young Guns said). This other girl, i have a feeling that you are only going for her to make you popular (she dated a sophomore . . .).

Go for the one you want and stuff it. Just remember to be confident.
 
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