2 girls are friends...should I tell her?

[Ronin47]

Been seeing a girl for casual sex. She introduces me to her friend and we all go out drinking together a few times. I get the friends snap and start talking to her.

Friend is showing high interest, responds instantly to texts. Asked the friend out one on one, she agrees right away. I suspect the friend is going to ask me about the girl I have been ****ing when we see each other.

Now, should I let her know directly that casual sex girl is exactly that - in other words tell her: yeah we are seeing each other casually

Or.. should I just go with: I dont talk about what I am doing with a girl just like I wont be talking about what you and I do together

When responding would you please explain WHY you think I should go with either response or if there is another response I am not thinking of. Thanks!

 

[Serenity]

It can go either way, but I'll always go with the option requiring the least amount of lies. I wouldn't tell if she doesn't ask, but if she does ask I'd just say "yeah" like it's totally normal. You're not doing anything wrong. She might not even care and you end up fvcking both of them anyways.

Trying to hide it may lead to them figuring it out and be angry at you, not for fvcking then both, but for lying about/hiding it.

 

[marmel75]

If she asks just say "you both are having fun getting to know one another better" and leave it at that...she knows what you mean

 

[Alvafe]

why you think she don't know?, woman talk, and a lot, most are useless, and on that its what she is doing.

I bet her only reason to go out with you is she is hoping you to do her the same as you do her friend, if she still ask just to see how you feel about just say its nothing serious, but if you are doing the sex part right, then she will not ask anything other then, when you will do me with her eyes

 

[lamath]

why you think she don't know?, woman talk, and a lot, most are useless, and on that its what she is doing.

I bet her only reason to go out with you is she is hoping you to do her the same as you do her friend, if she still ask just to see how you feel about just say its nothing serious, but if you are doing the sex part right, then she will not ask anything other then, when you will do me with her eyes

This

She already knows and you triggered her hypergamy by being with her friend and showing that you are in high demand

 

[Ronin47]

why you think she don't know?, woman talk, and a lot, most are useless, and on that its what she is doing.

I bet her only reason to go out with you is she is hoping you to do her the same as you do her friend, if she still ask just to see how you feel about just say its nothing serious, but if you are doing the sex part right, then she will not ask anything other then, when you will do me with her eyes

Cool thanks. I thought she might already know but I hadn't thought of this. Yeah d1cking casual girl down pretty hard so makes sense.

Thanks