Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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2-22-24 Internet Outages

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Today, reports of a massive, a multi-carrier cell outage this morning EST and a separate story about Pharmacies being targeted.

I'd bet these are linked - giant DDoS attacks have come from many countries for years. When I managed my own servers exposed on the net, I blocked several countries, whole classes, and A's; it dropped the size of my firewall logs to nothing.

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I am surprised that these companies do not have tighter POE countermeasures - usually a well configured endpoint provider can handle these attacks well, along with tight layer rules...
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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There will be more CyberAttacks "Solar flares" coming I've been tracking them for the last 3 months, and oh it's an election year, what a perfect storm this will create. 2024 will be a interesting year
 

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Ended up being a software issue related to "upgrades".


of course there's:

Wonder who got fired for not thoroughly testing their code before it got pushed to Prod :oops: :lol: :eek:
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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