LMAOKillaCam said:MySpace just owned you. Big time.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
LMAOKillaCam said:MySpace just owned you. Big time.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
DonJuanForever said:Before I talk to skip, what you guys need to understand on this forum is this. We are all, or mostly in our early 20's, we are growing into young, successful, and very attractive men. This forum is supposed to be a place where we come together to HELP EACH OTHER, grow into their full potential. This forum SHOULD NOT be a place where we come and tear each other down, life did that to most of us, so let's not add fuel to the fire, let's put it out.
OKAY? Can we act like young men and not young azzes?
To skip. I'm about to increase your pvssy flow.
You said this,
"b4 the date, i called her like 3 hours b4 it (cuz we hadnt talked on the phoone yet) and etc, etc, ......flake"
First off, when you do myspace, or when you meet a chick in person and you get her number. DO NOT SET UP DATES, that's waaayyy too early. That's getting the ketchup bottle out before you order the sandwich.
When you meet a chick and you get her number, on the first phone call, I need you to be oooozzzzing the sexual tonality, the sexual state, and the sexual flow. Your voice should be lower, you should notice that you are licking your lips, and you should be grabbing your dyck (all this subconsciously and without knowing you are doing it).......when you guys are talking, you should also notice that you talk slower, ok? Talk about anything light, a party, a movie, the club....what she's wearing.......add in sexual indoendo(I can't spell it) and you SHOULD notice that she is starting to relax and MATCH your state a little.....THEN END THE CALL. Say you got to do something, and you'll call her back later, or what I do, tell her to call you back if she called first, doesn't really matter.
DON'T CALL HER BACK THAT NIGHT. If she calls back, don't answer.
Wait until about 2 nights, and call her back in the evening, hmmmm, around 9 or 10. Have the same sexual stuff going on that I explained before.....NOW, tell her you just got in and you'll call her right back in about an hour, or tell her to call you back in an hour..........
THE HOUR PASSES.....
....now you two are on the phone, should be approaching midnight on a Sunday, Monday, Tuesday, or Wednesday, or even Thursday.......go right back into sexual indoendo, I need you to have MORE sexual flow right now, MORE....then go right into phone sex....I usually begin wit tellin her to blow me a kiss, then tell her, "say somethin freaky to me baby," she'll laugh seductively...stay in the flow, stay persistent, within 5 minutes she'll give in and start the moaning or she'll say, "You start it." Then you know how to phone bone right? Do it for about 30 minutes, THEN SET A TIME TOMORROW, after you get done doing your thing in the day time, for you to pick her up and for her to "show me what you can do, baby, haha" You got me?
Now pick her up tomorrow and go chill in a room somewhere, grab some beers and music.....THEN FVCK HER.
NOOOW, after you've fvcked her, now you can take her on dates and shyt.
Any questions, pm me.
- John
You guys need to pause and read this part again and again. This is why I'm not a proponent of canned lines and routines (I used them in my RAFC days). The fact is anyone can say these lines. What sets a DJ apart from the "normal guy" (i.e., AFC) is not only what he says but how he conveys it. Not to be forgotten is whether his delivery is congruent with his character.DonJuanForever said:How you sound and the vibe you carry is important....
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.