LMAOKillaCam said:MySpace just owned you. Big time.
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
LMAOKillaCam said:MySpace just owned you. Big time.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
DonJuanForever said:Before I talk to skip, what you guys need to understand on this forum is this. We are all, or mostly in our early 20's, we are growing into young, successful, and very attractive men. This forum is supposed to be a place where we come together to HELP EACH OTHER, grow into their full potential. This forum SHOULD NOT be a place where we come and tear each other down, life did that to most of us, so let's not add fuel to the fire, let's put it out.
OKAY? Can we act like young men and not young azzes?
To skip. I'm about to increase your pvssy flow.
You said this,
"b4 the date, i called her like 3 hours b4 it (cuz we hadnt talked on the phoone yet) and etc, etc, ......flake"
First off, when you do myspace, or when you meet a chick in person and you get her number. DO NOT SET UP DATES, that's waaayyy too early. That's getting the ketchup bottle out before you order the sandwich.
When you meet a chick and you get her number, on the first phone call, I need you to be oooozzzzing the sexual tonality, the sexual state, and the sexual flow. Your voice should be lower, you should notice that you are licking your lips, and you should be grabbing your dyck (all this subconsciously and without knowing you are doing it).......when you guys are talking, you should also notice that you talk slower, ok? Talk about anything light, a party, a movie, the club....what she's wearing.......add in sexual indoendo(I can't spell it) and you SHOULD notice that she is starting to relax and MATCH your state a little.....THEN END THE CALL. Say you got to do something, and you'll call her back later, or what I do, tell her to call you back if she called first, doesn't really matter.
DON'T CALL HER BACK THAT NIGHT. If she calls back, don't answer.
Wait until about 2 nights, and call her back in the evening, hmmmm, around 9 or 10. Have the same sexual stuff going on that I explained before.....NOW, tell her you just got in and you'll call her right back in about an hour, or tell her to call you back in an hour..........
THE HOUR PASSES.....
....now you two are on the phone, should be approaching midnight on a Sunday, Monday, Tuesday, or Wednesday, or even Thursday.......go right back into sexual indoendo, I need you to have MORE sexual flow right now, MORE....then go right into phone sex....I usually begin wit tellin her to blow me a kiss, then tell her, "say somethin freaky to me baby," she'll laugh seductively...stay in the flow, stay persistent, within 5 minutes she'll give in and start the moaning or she'll say, "You start it." Then you know how to phone bone right? Do it for about 30 minutes, THEN SET A TIME TOMORROW, after you get done doing your thing in the day time, for you to pick her up and for her to "show me what you can do, baby, haha" You got me?
Now pick her up tomorrow and go chill in a room somewhere, grab some beers and music.....THEN FVCK HER.
NOOOW, after you've fvcked her, now you can take her on dates and shyt.
Any questions, pm me.
- John
You guys need to pause and read this part again and again. This is why I'm not a proponent of canned lines and routines (I used them in my RAFC days). The fact is anyone can say these lines. What sets a DJ apart from the "normal guy" (i.e., AFC) is not only what he says but how he conveys it. Not to be forgotten is whether his delivery is congruent with his character.DonJuanForever said:How you sound and the vibe you carry is important....
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.