Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
65% of people know that about 87% of statistics are made on the spot. Its true.L777 said:No you haven't.
The truth at last.
A friend of mine who happens to be a psychologist told me that people who brag (especially when they can't prove the boast) are insecure 99.99% (Nothing can be 100% in the field of psychology, thats the highest) of the time, and lying 98% of the time.
I would bet my house that you are full of s.hit, little boy.
Sooooo.............. You got a GF, and you **** new girls every night, and you want to date a HB10 that you met on myspace....skip2mylou781 said:and if it makes HER feel any better, i just ****ed a girl yesterday and im gonna **** my gf tomorro nite.........still tho, despite my obvious lack of morals, i WANTED TO SEE HER lol.....is this karma or wat?
Ummm, greed? Hey, just trying to play Devil's advocate...Call_Me_Daddy said:Sooooo.............. You got a GF, and you **** new girls every night, and you want to date a HB10 that you met on myspace....
WTF?
Anybody else care to explain? Or have I got it all wrong?
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
cuz i only am her bf in HER eyes....in my eyes, im just ****in her every time i see her....but she is nice so its all good.....im a player, deff not a nice guy when it comes to girls ever since i used to be differentbelividere said:I'm just busting your balls with that last line.
Sh1t happens when we least expect it, or at least when we least hope for it too. So yeah I guess that really is karma huh.
WTF are you doing dating a girl if want to be fvcking a new girl every night?
Only in her eyes? but, you just said before that she was your girlfriend?skip2mylou781 said:cuz i only am her bf in HER eyes....in my eyes, im just ****in her every time i see her....but she is nice so its all good.....im a player, deff not a nice guy when it comes to girls ever since i used to be different
I'll believe it when I see it. Any chance of a link to her elusive MySpace?skip2mylou781 said:this girl was perfect lookswise to me....and she wanted to go on a date....aka i had a chance to **** a perfect 10, and then she flaked....i dont care how many 8's or 9s i ****ed, i WANTED her sooooooooooo badly
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
You need to make things clear, instead of claiming something then having to backtrack and explain yourself. If she's not your girlfriend, don't claim otherwise.skip2mylou781 said:killacam - she thinks shes my gf cuz thats what i told her to keep her around, when to ME shes just a glorified **** buddy who i **** a few times a week who i do NOT take seriously, thats what i meant........as for the girls myspace, i can only imagine some faggot posting to her what im saying here (l777 for instance, or dreamxhenry) so im sorry i gotta keep her page private
w/e college is back in session, im gonna go find girls in my 2nd most favorite place - college parties!
KillaCam said:MySpace just owned you. Big time.
Allow me. This guy is full of s.hit, its been discussed and agreed upon by the majority in the past. If you look at his claims, you'll realise that theyr'e completely inconsistent,and when you call him out on this , he just starts typing **** and ****, obviously cos the guy's gutted that he's been caught out. Hope this helps.Call_Me_Daddy said:Sooooo.............. You got a GF, and you **** new girls every night, and you want to date a HB10 that you met on myspace....
WTF?
Anybody else care to explain? Or have I got it all wrong?
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Actually, you could just post the image locations without giving away the profile, like this. Not that I care if you do or not, just saying you technically can.skip2mylou781 said:i can only imagine some faggot posting to her what im saying here (l777 for instance, or dreamxhenry) so im sorry i gotta keep her page private
:crackup: :crackup: :crackup: AHAHAHAHAHAH!!!! That's all he's got!!skip2mylou781 said:dude ur the only retard, along with maybe 3 others who think im full of shyt........get a ****in life u moron........ur better yet come to boston so i can kick ur dumb british ass
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.