"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
1st date with hb10 tonight - IM AN AFC RIGHT NOW, HELP!
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
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65% of people know that about 87% of statistics are made on the spot. Its true.L777 said:
While I dont think that skip is 100% full of 5hit... he does brag way too much. He says and acts like a little boy with the swearing, the retarted grammar and the fact that he does not punctuate most anything.
Basically he's a little thug wannabe acting like a black man when he's just a prissy little white boy with a big mouth.
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Sooooo.............. You got a GF, and you **** new girls every night, and you want to date a HB10 that you met on myspace....skip2mylou781 said:
WTF?
Anybody else care to explain? Or have I got it all wrong?
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That is all
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Ummm, greed? Hey, just trying to play Devil's advocate...Call_Me_Daddy said:
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
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cuz i only am her bf in HER eyes....in my eyes, im just ****in her every time i see her....but she is nice so its all good.....im a player, deff not a nice guy when it comes to girls ever since i used to be differentbelividere said:
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w/e college is back in session, im gonna go find girls in my 2nd most favorite place - college parties!
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
You need to make things clear, instead of claiming something then having to backtrack and explain yourself. If she's not your girlfriend, don't claim otherwise.skip2mylou781 said:
Convenient answer on the MySpace topic though. I'm never a fan of hot air.
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KillaCam said:
:crackup: :crackup: :crackup:
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Allow me. This guy is full of s.hit, its been discussed and agreed upon by the majority in the past. If you look at his claims, you'll realise that theyr'e completely inconsistent,and when you call him out on this , he just starts typing **** and ****, obviously cos the guy's gutted that he's been caught out. Hope this helps.Call_Me_Daddy said:
Oh and Bvbidd, don't even attempt to communicate with me if your'e going to usewords like "brang". I know for a fact that wasn't a typo, look where 'A' is on the keyboard. Spak
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Actually, you could just post the image locations without giving away the profile, like this. Not that I care if you do or not, just saying you technically can.skip2mylou781 said:
Anyways, I do agree that most guys who brag vaguely are lying to compensate for the opposite IRL. Not to say if skip is BSing or not, he could be...but then again girls that age are truly some of the biggest slvts in the world.
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:crackup: :crackup: :crackup: AHAHAHAHAHAH!!!! That's all he's got!!skip2mylou781 said:
PATHETICK Skip. Just like a little boy. You resort to insults off the bat. Who the **** needs discussion, when you can just say "you dumb british!!!". Eh skip?
:cheer: Woo.
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what a peice of shyt u r
You come on here, boast about how many girls you've hit on, how many you've laid, how many different girls you've been with for the week, and then you cry about some lame hb10 on myspace. I DON'T GET IT ???
And to make things worse, it seems like you intentionally set yourself up to get bashed, and then get angry b/c everyone doesn't see u in the same light that you try to make yourself seen on these internet forums.
WHY do u care what people think of you on these forums and why are u so desperately trying to get us to think you are so great ?
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.