Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
65% of people know that about 87% of statistics are made on the spot. Its true.L777 said:No you haven't.
The truth at last.
A friend of mine who happens to be a psychologist told me that people who brag (especially when they can't prove the boast) are insecure 99.99% (Nothing can be 100% in the field of psychology, thats the highest) of the time, and lying 98% of the time.
I would bet my house that you are full of s.hit, little boy.
Sooooo.............. You got a GF, and you **** new girls every night, and you want to date a HB10 that you met on myspace....skip2mylou781 said:and if it makes HER feel any better, i just ****ed a girl yesterday and im gonna **** my gf tomorro nite.........still tho, despite my obvious lack of morals, i WANTED TO SEE HER lol.....is this karma or wat?
Ummm, greed? Hey, just trying to play Devil's advocate...Call_Me_Daddy said:Sooooo.............. You got a GF, and you **** new girls every night, and you want to date a HB10 that you met on myspace....
WTF?
Anybody else care to explain? Or have I got it all wrong?
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
cuz i only am her bf in HER eyes....in my eyes, im just ****in her every time i see her....but she is nice so its all good.....im a player, deff not a nice guy when it comes to girls ever since i used to be differentbelividere said:I'm just busting your balls with that last line.
Sh1t happens when we least expect it, or at least when we least hope for it too. So yeah I guess that really is karma huh.
WTF are you doing dating a girl if want to be fvcking a new girl every night?
Only in her eyes? but, you just said before that she was your girlfriend?skip2mylou781 said:cuz i only am her bf in HER eyes....in my eyes, im just ****in her every time i see her....but she is nice so its all good.....im a player, deff not a nice guy when it comes to girls ever since i used to be different
I'll believe it when I see it. Any chance of a link to her elusive MySpace?skip2mylou781 said:this girl was perfect lookswise to me....and she wanted to go on a date....aka i had a chance to **** a perfect 10, and then she flaked....i dont care how many 8's or 9s i ****ed, i WANTED her sooooooooooo badly
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
You need to make things clear, instead of claiming something then having to backtrack and explain yourself. If she's not your girlfriend, don't claim otherwise.skip2mylou781 said:killacam - she thinks shes my gf cuz thats what i told her to keep her around, when to ME shes just a glorified **** buddy who i **** a few times a week who i do NOT take seriously, thats what i meant........as for the girls myspace, i can only imagine some faggot posting to her what im saying here (l777 for instance, or dreamxhenry) so im sorry i gotta keep her page private
w/e college is back in session, im gonna go find girls in my 2nd most favorite place - college parties!
KillaCam said:MySpace just owned you. Big time.
Allow me. This guy is full of s.hit, its been discussed and agreed upon by the majority in the past. If you look at his claims, you'll realise that theyr'e completely inconsistent,and when you call him out on this , he just starts typing **** and ****, obviously cos the guy's gutted that he's been caught out. Hope this helps.Call_Me_Daddy said:Sooooo.............. You got a GF, and you **** new girls every night, and you want to date a HB10 that you met on myspace....
WTF?
Anybody else care to explain? Or have I got it all wrong?
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Actually, you could just post the image locations without giving away the profile, like this. Not that I care if you do or not, just saying you technically can.skip2mylou781 said:i can only imagine some faggot posting to her what im saying here (l777 for instance, or dreamxhenry) so im sorry i gotta keep her page private
:crackup: :crackup: :crackup: AHAHAHAHAHAH!!!! That's all he's got!!skip2mylou781 said:dude ur the only retard, along with maybe 3 others who think im full of shyt........get a ****in life u moron........ur better yet come to boston so i can kick ur dumb british ass
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.