"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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1st date I want action!!!

Bigworm

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so i set some raport with this girl the day before , should i call today so that i can take her on friday to the club? is the club even a good place for a first date? remember i dont like to talk to much on the first dates but i am a great dancer.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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DonJuanMonk

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Yeah do that, drink at least 3 drinks to get buzzed, tell her how much you wanna bang her.

You be DJ! :woo:
 

Scoiland

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a club isn't the greatest idea

If you want to limit the talking then you should take her on an action date.

Like go carting

However, the first date is all about talking you want to get to know the person that is why you are going out with them. You aren't there not to talk
 

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If you want action on the first date, get some food with her and go back to your place or her place. Start making out and go from there.

It's not like you're going to magically make her want to have sex with you the first time you meet up by picking some creative date. If she wants sex, she'll jump at the opportunity to be alone with you.
 

lebRambo

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Originally posted by Schlep
If you want action on the first date, get some food with her and go back to your place or her place. Start making out and go from there.

It's not like you're going to magically make her want to have sex with you the first time you meet up by picking some creative date. If she wants sex, she'll jump at the opportunity to be alone with you.
then theres always the chance that this dude isn't slick enough to get this chick so hot she forgets all about being a good girl and wants to f*ck right there.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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