"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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1st date I want action!!!

Bigworm

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so i set some raport with this girl the day before , should i call today so that i can take her on friday to the club? is the club even a good place for a first date? remember i dont like to talk to much on the first dates but i am a great dancer.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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DonJuanMonk

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Yeah do that, drink at least 3 drinks to get buzzed, tell her how much you wanna bang her.

You be DJ! :woo:
 

Scoiland

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a club isn't the greatest idea

If you want to limit the talking then you should take her on an action date.

Like go carting

However, the first date is all about talking you want to get to know the person that is why you are going out with them. You aren't there not to talk
 

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If you want action on the first date, get some food with her and go back to your place or her place. Start making out and go from there.

It's not like you're going to magically make her want to have sex with you the first time you meet up by picking some creative date. If she wants sex, she'll jump at the opportunity to be alone with you.
 

lebRambo

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Originally posted by Schlep
If you want action on the first date, get some food with her and go back to your place or her place. Start making out and go from there.

It's not like you're going to magically make her want to have sex with you the first time you meet up by picking some creative date. If she wants sex, she'll jump at the opportunity to be alone with you.
then theres always the chance that this dude isn't slick enough to get this chick so hot she forgets all about being a good girl and wants to f*ck right there.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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