Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
IMO, these women would have fvcked you anyway so it's not like you made something happen that wasn't already going to happen.
Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
Good way to think about it.
I agree. First date sex has more to do with timing then anything the man does. If you are on a first date with a woman that isn't already emotionally disposed to have sex on that date... nothing a man can do that will change her mind. This has happened to me on a number of occasions, but when this happened, I was responding to what the woman was open too... it wasn't anything I did... the timing was just right.
That line isn't bad OP, but it's all situational.
What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.
You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
This makes no sense. It’s like saying stop reading books. Why is it that the internet is ineffective? Why can’t he just be a guy that doesn’t apply trial and error the advice he’s given? I took the advice around here and applied it, which is key. Some of it was good and helped, some of it was radioactive level toxic and caused me nearly irreparable damage. Nonetheless it’s the trial and error part, and the willingness of the poster not the internet.
This is like going in to high school and lacking the ability to do basic arithmetic. Going on a date is literally the second thing a man does after asking a girl out. As you previously stated, trial and error is good for development. However, the advice on the internet I’ve seen since the pandemic has been grifting/gimmicky risk avoidance type advice for men. The red and black pill have been brainwashing men that women are all hypergamous sloots and that taking any risk in them is a losing strategy.
Sadly, if she held your hand, that was a clear cue to keep escalating.
Yep, you didn't make a move, and now she either thinks you're A. not man enough to go after what you want, or B. that she's not attractive enough to inspire that action from you.
