wifehunter
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Overheard a guy talking to his date... He bought her a present on the first date! Betas are entertaining!!! Tried so hard not to laugh out loud!!!
Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
1st date... He bought her a present!!!
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
NSX-R
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I remember a small group of 10 people i saw a couple of weeks ago. They went up to go and it was that guy with a chick. This guy was a true white knight. He went to pick her coat and he wore it to her , after he went to pick her bag which he carried all the way and in the end he opened the door for her .
I was laughing but still i was feeling bad for this poor guy that he has to learn the hard way.
I can say I could turned up to be the same as him if it weren't for this place here.
I was laughing but still i was feeling bad for this poor guy that he has to learn the hard way.
I can say I could turned up to be the same as him if it weren't for this place here.
wifehunter
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Yes, took me a few heartbreaks, to finally snap and realise there has to be a better way!!!
EyeBRollin
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Don't be so quick to judge.
I always pay, I get her coat for her, I hold doors. A gentleman is not synonymous with a beta. Alpha vs. beta is about frame, not manners.
I wouldn't agree with buying her presents at all, but you can be kind to women as long as you remain in control and things are done to your demands.
I always pay, I get her coat for her, I hold doors. A gentleman is not synonymous with a beta. Alpha vs. beta is about frame, not manners.
I wouldn't agree with buying her presents at all, but you can be kind to women as long as you remain in control and things are done to your demands.
I agree. Its all about putting yourself and your principles above everyone else. You are the king. Act like one. You make the rules. You are next to no-one. Believe in it.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
NSX-R
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I consider myself to be a gentleman.
If I wanted to help the other female to wear her coat I would do it because I wanted to. The guy I mentioned did it in a way to get the approval of the female like " I'm a good boy" . That's not a gentleman way.
And not all situations require a gentleman behavior.
NSX-R
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Considering flakes is an increasing trend in our times,giving a chick some gift for actually coming into the date,i think it's something she deserves . lol
El Payaso
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True but the chances that this guy has an "alpha" frame are low. I guess we would need to hear more about how he handles her down the line.
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We women loooove chivalrous men because it's so romantic and sweet 
dustmuffin
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I always bring a gift for the woman on a first date...my c ock....
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
zekko
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Obviously I agree buying her a present on a first date would be a bad idea. But maybe if they've known each other a long time - Like maybe if they have both been involved with other people and are finally getting a chance to try hooking up, then maybe in a case like that I could see it. Not something I would do, but I could see it.
wifehunter
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Hilarious!!!
There's a very fine line between being a gentleman and being a tool. But I will say this.
Always paying and fetching her coat like a servant is a good way to get taken advantage of.
dustmuffin
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My date offered to pay for snacks at movie last night. I let her. She told me get anything I wanted since I paid for tickets. Wild sex after movie. I think I will keep her.
EyeBRollin
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Not if you are in control. Men lead. Getting her coat is simply a kind gesture. Some men are just raised to act a certain way. As long as the frame remains the consistent and you treat all women the same way, it doesn't make a difference.
I always pay when I invite a woman out. If she isn't acting right, I simply don't invite her out. She either gets an invite to my place or radio silence.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
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For my 18th birthday I ended up with a girl ( hot make-out session) I’ve been crushing on for months
We started a relationship that night and I was super excited to see her next week. The beta I was made her a super complex origami rose and bought her a chocolate. Its understantment to say that she ignored me on that date.
Tomorrow day she dumped me over her friend, reason being "im not mature enough" ( she was 17)
Soon I found out she was already dating a 28-year-old guy. That went on for half a year until her parents found out and the police got involved, lol
I never did that mystake again. Give gifts only because you want to, never make it about her.
We started a relationship that night and I was super excited to see her next week. The beta I was made her a super complex origami rose and bought her a chocolate. Its understantment to say that she ignored me on that date.
Tomorrow day she dumped me over her friend, reason being "im not mature enough" ( she was 17)
Soon I found out she was already dating a 28-year-old guy. That went on for half a year until her parents found out and the police got involved, lol
I never did that mystake again. Give gifts only because you want to, never make it about her.
And if she doesn't act right after you've invite her out? You still pay and fetch items for her?
Let's see. Rewarding bad behavior, check. Unreciprocated generosity, check. This is quenching the appetite of the entitled western woman. Fantastic.
EyeBRollin
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Correct. You're the classy man. You better be a bigger man than her. You pay the bill then walk away.
beforeimgone
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Lol, betas are laughable. Obviously you know not to be a beta and what behaviors to avoid, but do you know what behaviors to actually employ in order to help her fall in love with you and stay in love? It's so easy, man, you honestly won't even have to lift a finger. A few friends of mine and myself are discussing this very phenomenon and would appreciate a unique perspective such as yours on how to keep your woman in love and if our current theory could use a bit of tweaking. Feel free to share your thoughts with us. We will listen!
Read my thread:
"All it takes is two things to make her love you forever"