"Blank Mind on Dates? She's Dropping Hints You Keep Missing"

The plates get cleared and the silence lands like a brick. You can feel her waiting. Your brain offers up your commute, your job, the weather — topics that have ended more second dates than bad breath.

Here's what most guys never learn: women hand out free conversational material all night long. Tiny clues about what they actually want to discuss. Catch them and you never run out of things to say — because she's telling you what to say next.

Rule 4 of the "22 Rules" trains your ear to catch every single one.

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1st date! Any suggestions

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Yeah, stupid Americans an Ozzies! Go UK! (except the welsh) What-ho chaps!

Ahem, besides that opentoadvice you're a right nobber for all those question marks, my page looks really wierd now. Can a kind mod please cull them a bit? 1 gets across the point just fine.

By the way you've come to a site teaching people how to enjoy life and get tons of ass. You then say the people here aren't getting any. Erm, isn't that kind of like going into a gym and telling eveyone there they're unfit? The people there are either very fit, being trainers or athletes, or trying to get fitter. So your insult was somewhere between stupid and meaningless.

Anyway congrats on that!
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Mods, lock this thread up. It ain't going nowhere and some of y'all just hating.
 

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and some of us are tryin to constructively criticise
 

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Originally posted by JSH
and some of us are tryin to constructively criticise
Well actually I remember somebody trying to back the guy up and It was to be used the word "some" including opentoadvice. I 'd hate to be him. Really.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Dumbas.s, read the thread title.
 
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