"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Yeah, stupid Americans an Ozzies! Go UK! (except the welsh) What-ho chaps!

Ahem, besides that opentoadvice you're a right nobber for all those question marks, my page looks really wierd now. Can a kind mod please cull them a bit? 1 gets across the point just fine.

By the way you've come to a site teaching people how to enjoy life and get tons of ass. You then say the people here aren't getting any. Erm, isn't that kind of like going into a gym and telling eveyone there they're unfit? The people there are either very fit, being trainers or athletes, or trying to get fitter. So your insult was somewhere between stupid and meaningless.

Anyway congrats on that!
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Mods, lock this thread up. It ain't going nowhere and some of y'all just hating.
 

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and some of us are tryin to constructively criticise
 

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Originally posted by JSH
and some of us are tryin to constructively criticise
Well actually I remember somebody trying to back the guy up and It was to be used the word "some" including opentoadvice. I 'd hate to be him. Really.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

Read more...

tactic

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Dumbas.s, read the thread title.
 
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