"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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1st date! Any suggestions

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Yeah, stupid Americans an Ozzies! Go UK! (except the welsh) What-ho chaps!

Ahem, besides that opentoadvice you're a right nobber for all those question marks, my page looks really wierd now. Can a kind mod please cull them a bit? 1 gets across the point just fine.

By the way you've come to a site teaching people how to enjoy life and get tons of ass. You then say the people here aren't getting any. Erm, isn't that kind of like going into a gym and telling eveyone there they're unfit? The people there are either very fit, being trainers or athletes, or trying to get fitter. So your insult was somewhere between stupid and meaningless.

Anyway congrats on that!
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Mods, lock this thread up. It ain't going nowhere and some of y'all just hating.
 
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and some of us are tryin to constructively criticise
 
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Originally posted by JSH
and some of us are tryin to constructively criticise
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Well actually I remember somebody trying to back the guy up and It was to be used the word "some" including opentoadvice. I 'd hate to be him. Really.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Dumbas.s, read the thread title.
 
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