"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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18 year old HB9

bilboteabaggins

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this girl is a 9 in my book, maybe not everyone elses but my type exactly

I didn't tell her I was upset for 2+ days after she flaked, and that was only when she texted me "hey, what are you doing" like nothing happened at all

this is a lost cause, I am 99% sure of it
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Dust 2 Dust

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Should have cut her loose and gone NC when she flaked the first time. Theres no point in pursuing this one any further.
 

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STOP CARING!

If you're so sure it's a lost cause, you should stop caring.
If you wanna get her after all, you have to show disinterest, which you can only do if you stop caring.

So STOP CARING! Ban this chick out of your mind. There'll be others like her, don't hope on that, KNOW that! You're a pimp and all chicks are ho's. Get out there and be pimpin'
 

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Die Hard said:
STOP CARING!

If you're so sure it's a lost cause, you should stop caring.
If you wanna get her after all, you have to show disinterest, which you can only do if you stop caring.

So STOP CARING! Ban this chick out of your mind. There'll be others like her, don't hope on that, KNOW that! You're a pimp and all chicks are ho's. Get out there and be pimpin'

100% agreed, that is the bottom line, if this chick was that tore up over me then others are as well, if anything is gained from this it is a confidence boost
 

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Dust 2 Dust said:
Should have cut her loose and gone NC when she flaked the first time. Theres no point in pursuing this one any further.
its why she flaked that caused me to do different or I would have went NC for sure, she is fvckin scared to death, girls tell me all the time that I intimidate the heck out of them, come across as a confident big time player, which is not the case at all
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I work near a university campus and it provides a constant reminder that they haven't stopped making hot 18 year old girls yet. Every year, thousands are released from babe factory to the campus near my workplace.

So take it easy, old fella.
 

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Jitterbug said:
I work near a university campus and it provides a constant reminder that they haven't stopped making hot 18 year old girls yet. Every year, thousands are released from babe factory to the campus near my workplace.

So take it easy, old fella.
Ha! Very true although the number is decreasing as women keep getting fatter and fatter.

also a lot of those hot 18 year olds will turn to little piggies by their mid 20s.

I am willing to bet that 20 years from now the scenario you described will be the exception. Hot 18 year olds filling up universities will be a minority or it will be at least 50/50 with the fatties.
 

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True, and just from looking at those 18 y.o chicks, as slim & hot as they are now, I can tell they're gonna be very fat before 25 with the lack of exercises, the drinking and sh1tty diets.
 
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