"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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18 year old HB9

bilboteabaggins

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this girl is a 9 in my book, maybe not everyone elses but my type exactly

I didn't tell her I was upset for 2+ days after she flaked, and that was only when she texted me "hey, what are you doing" like nothing happened at all

this is a lost cause, I am 99% sure of it
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Should have cut her loose and gone NC when she flaked the first time. Theres no point in pursuing this one any further.
 

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STOP CARING!

If you're so sure it's a lost cause, you should stop caring.
If you wanna get her after all, you have to show disinterest, which you can only do if you stop caring.

So STOP CARING! Ban this chick out of your mind. There'll be others like her, don't hope on that, KNOW that! You're a pimp and all chicks are ho's. Get out there and be pimpin'
 

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Die Hard said:
STOP CARING!

If you're so sure it's a lost cause, you should stop caring.
If you wanna get her after all, you have to show disinterest, which you can only do if you stop caring.

So STOP CARING! Ban this chick out of your mind. There'll be others like her, don't hope on that, KNOW that! You're a pimp and all chicks are ho's. Get out there and be pimpin'

100% agreed, that is the bottom line, if this chick was that tore up over me then others are as well, if anything is gained from this it is a confidence boost
 

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Dust 2 Dust said:
Should have cut her loose and gone NC when she flaked the first time. Theres no point in pursuing this one any further.
its why she flaked that caused me to do different or I would have went NC for sure, she is fvckin scared to death, girls tell me all the time that I intimidate the heck out of them, come across as a confident big time player, which is not the case at all
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I work near a university campus and it provides a constant reminder that they haven't stopped making hot 18 year old girls yet. Every year, thousands are released from babe factory to the campus near my workplace.

So take it easy, old fella.
 

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Jitterbug said:
I work near a university campus and it provides a constant reminder that they haven't stopped making hot 18 year old girls yet. Every year, thousands are released from babe factory to the campus near my workplace.

So take it easy, old fella.
Ha! Very true although the number is decreasing as women keep getting fatter and fatter.

also a lot of those hot 18 year olds will turn to little piggies by their mid 20s.

I am willing to bet that 20 years from now the scenario you described will be the exception. Hot 18 year olds filling up universities will be a minority or it will be at least 50/50 with the fatties.
 

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True, and just from looking at those 18 y.o chicks, as slim & hot as they are now, I can tell they're gonna be very fat before 25 with the lack of exercises, the drinking and sh1tty diets.
 
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