"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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18 year old HB9

bilboteabaggins

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this girl is a 9 in my book, maybe not everyone elses but my type exactly

I didn't tell her I was upset for 2+ days after she flaked, and that was only when she texted me "hey, what are you doing" like nothing happened at all

this is a lost cause, I am 99% sure of it
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Dust 2 Dust

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Should have cut her loose and gone NC when she flaked the first time. Theres no point in pursuing this one any further.
 

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STOP CARING!

If you're so sure it's a lost cause, you should stop caring.
If you wanna get her after all, you have to show disinterest, which you can only do if you stop caring.

So STOP CARING! Ban this chick out of your mind. There'll be others like her, don't hope on that, KNOW that! You're a pimp and all chicks are ho's. Get out there and be pimpin'
 

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Die Hard said:
STOP CARING!

If you're so sure it's a lost cause, you should stop caring.
If you wanna get her after all, you have to show disinterest, which you can only do if you stop caring.

So STOP CARING! Ban this chick out of your mind. There'll be others like her, don't hope on that, KNOW that! You're a pimp and all chicks are ho's. Get out there and be pimpin'

100% agreed, that is the bottom line, if this chick was that tore up over me then others are as well, if anything is gained from this it is a confidence boost
 

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Dust 2 Dust said:
Should have cut her loose and gone NC when she flaked the first time. Theres no point in pursuing this one any further.
its why she flaked that caused me to do different or I would have went NC for sure, she is fvckin scared to death, girls tell me all the time that I intimidate the heck out of them, come across as a confident big time player, which is not the case at all
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I work near a university campus and it provides a constant reminder that they haven't stopped making hot 18 year old girls yet. Every year, thousands are released from babe factory to the campus near my workplace.

So take it easy, old fella.
 

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Jitterbug said:
I work near a university campus and it provides a constant reminder that they haven't stopped making hot 18 year old girls yet. Every year, thousands are released from babe factory to the campus near my workplace.

So take it easy, old fella.
Ha! Very true although the number is decreasing as women keep getting fatter and fatter.

also a lot of those hot 18 year olds will turn to little piggies by their mid 20s.

I am willing to bet that 20 years from now the scenario you described will be the exception. Hot 18 year olds filling up universities will be a minority or it will be at least 50/50 with the fatties.
 

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True, and just from looking at those 18 y.o chicks, as slim & hot as they are now, I can tell they're gonna be very fat before 25 with the lack of exercises, the drinking and sh1tty diets.
 
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