"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
18-20 year olds this one is for you.
- Thread starter xomel
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
PeterNorthisawesome
Banned
...why risk cancer? There's a million other places you can take your chick. Ex. Party, Action Dates and Food.xomel said:Too young to go to a bar? Take her to a hookah lounge
ValleyDJing
Master Don Juan
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Mandiblard
Senior Don Juan
ValleyDJing
Master Don Juan
Nope.Yapper said:
Patrick124
Master Don Juan
And this tip should be for anyone 16+. At all the local hookahs they dont card: i've had grisl bring their 14-15yr old female friends, no problem. Usually if there is they just get a "under 18" stamp..and no one says anything when they smoke.
But not every girl is into it. I love it, my ex loved it, and her friends love it.
And it a good place to get in a kiss: shotgunning is fun.
Calypzo
Don Juan
the ones in Las Vegas WILL card you unless you are a frequent visitor.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
ValleyDJing said:
smoking hookah is totally different than smoking anything else. hookah doesnt even get you buzzed/high... there's more molasses in it than there is tobacco, and if im correct theres not even nicotine in it.
theres no reason anyone be down to hookah if they have at least smoked a few cigarettes, cigars, or weed.
the only people i can see not smoking hookah are super super christain straight edge. even then... hookah is BARELY a drug. come on now, they didnt even tell us not to smoke hookah in grade school... you know the whole anti-smoking and anti-drug talk where they even bash swishers, black-n-milds and cigars... but they dont even touch hookah.
PeterNorthisawesome
Banned
No I rather smoke salvia or ganja, which is proven to be less harmful than tabacco with tar.Cleric said:
ValleyDJing
Master Don Juan
I ain't saying hookah is bad...I'm just saying just the idea of a chick smoking kinda makes em seem, trashy. And girls who don't smoke think the same thing about dudes, whether it isn't unhealthy or not.xomel said:
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
http://i17.photobucket.com/albums/b97/kasun/Pic217.jpg
Seriously if your under 21 hookah is awsome place to meet and takes chicks too.
http://i17.photobucket.com/albums/b97/kasun/hooka.jpg
CalmCoolAndConfident
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