"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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18-20 year olds this one is for you.

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Yapper said:
Is it a good place to find the bitches?
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It can be. It's not as good as a bar or a club but its better than a book store or the mall. It's more of a place you take a girl to get to know her.
 
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I went to the hookah bar a few times, there are some hot chicks there. Overall though, I wouldn't take a girl there unless she smoked...which is a huge turnoff anyways.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Hookah Bars are awesome? why are people ragging?
And this tip should be for anyone 16+. At all the local hookahs they dont card: i've had grisl bring their 14-15yr old female friends, no problem. Usually if there is they just get a "under 18" stamp..and no one says anything when they smoke.
But not every girl is into it. I love it, my ex loved it, and her friends love it.

And it a good place to get in a kiss: shotgunning is fun. :)
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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PeterNorthisawesome said:
...why risk cancer? There's a million other places you can take your chick. Ex. Party, Action Dates and Food.
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Hug trees much?
 
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My hookah was a solid investment. I have kiss closed with it multiple times. Trying to teach a girl to blow smoke rings is very sensual, and you can endlessly neg her for not being able to do it, and shotgunning is an almost guaranteed kiss if you have played you cards right. This is a great post, congrats.
 
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I went to the hookah bar a few times, there are some hot chicks there. Overall though, I wouldn't take a girl there unless she smoked...which is a huge turnoff anyways.
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smoking hookah is totally different than smoking anything else. hookah doesnt even get you buzzed/high... there's more molasses in it than there is tobacco, and if im correct theres not even nicotine in it.

theres no reason anyone be down to hookah if they have at least smoked a few cigarettes, cigars, or weed.

the only people i can see not smoking hookah are super super christain straight edge. even then... hookah is BARELY a drug. come on now, they didnt even tell us not to smoke hookah in grade school... you know the whole anti-smoking and anti-drug talk where they even bash swishers, black-n-milds and cigars... but they dont even touch hookah.
 
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smoking hookah is totally different than smoking anything else. hookah doesnt even get you buzzed/high... there's more molasses in it than there is tobacco, and if im correct theres not even nicotine in it.

theres no reason anyone be down to hookah if they have at least smoked a few cigarettes, cigars, or weed.

the only people i can see not smoking hookah are super super christain straight edge. even then... hookah is BARELY a drug. come on now, they didnt even tell us not to smoke hookah in grade school... you know the whole anti-smoking and anti-drug talk where they even bash swishers, black-n-milds and cigars... but they dont even touch hookah.
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I ain't saying hookah is bad...I'm just saying just the idea of a chick smoking kinda makes em seem, trashy. And girls who don't smoke think the same thing about dudes, whether it isn't unhealthy or not.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Hell ya hooka lounges are tight. I went on a date with this one chick and she was the one that suggested it. Its fun but the joint we had later was better.
 
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